LynneVicious Posted January 25, 2022 Share Posted January 25, 2022 On 1/11/2022 at 2:00 PM, Wiseman2 said: You already know it's time to leave. Don't buy into the crocodile tears it's part of his sadistic game to get you to feel sorry for him. This is exactly it. He’s manipulating you into feeling sorry for him. He didn’t feel so bad the last few years while cheating on you, did he? He’s sorry he got caught. Moreover, he’s a serial cheat. There’s no fixing that. To stay means you degrade yourself, your own values and truths. You’re worth more. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 25, 2022 Share Posted January 25, 2022 21 hours ago, Sienna-lee said: He did it to disgust himself as he has always felt that way, he wanted to prove he is disgusting. There are 100s of ways to be disgusting without having sex with men multiple times. In fact, being with a female prostitute gives the same result. Why men? Now he knows there is hope out there. Someone wants him, someone actually loves him, and someone is listening to, and helping him, with his issues. Haven't you always been there wanting him, loving him and supporting him? It sounds like you have. I don't believe him. He has done some self harming, which I am not happy about. He has told the counsellor that too, so we need to speak to his DR to see if he can get any extra help. He needs to accept who he is but he is fighting it. I hope this works out for you OP but I feel you're just sitting on a time bomb. He can only pretend for so long. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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