Martin123 Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 Hi all. Looking for opinions please. So theres Girl having a sexy photo shoot at my work. I don't know her. I didn't see it happen.. It was a tic toc video that went around my work group. I'm curious. I Google the tic toc name expecting to find the photographer (as he was in one of the pictures) do I could find out why they would pick such a shitty place to have a photo shoot. As I Google I came to find it's the girl in the photos tic tok and there's a link to her only fans page. I'm a man. I'm gonna look So I click the link and it says subscribe for free and then I can see her photos. I do. It takes 2 clicks to subscribe. As I'm browsing I see an outfit I'd like to see my girl in. So I send her the picture. Didn't go down well. From what I can conclude it's because I 'subscribed and searched specifically for a girl' Now I didn't pay anything. It was all free. But my girl has an issue, BUT she doesn't have an issue with porn. She views porn herself. And she's not the jelous type, she notices me looking at other women all the time and we never have a problem. So where did I go wrong? Why is she treating only fans different to porn? I didn't pay anything. If it's the searching specifically for someone that is the problem then why is it ok to search for a porn star but not someone on only fans. Only fans is not something I use. It was the 2nd time I've used it purely because this woman I googled had an account. Now me personally wouldn't care who she googled. I used an example of if she googled a work mate but then came across he had an only fans page, and looked. I wouldn't care. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 6 hours ago, Martin123 said: As I'm browsing I see an outfit I'd like to see my girl in. So I send her the picture. You have a lot to learn about women, my friend. 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 11 hours ago, Martin123 said: I'm browsing I see an outfit I'd like to see my girl in. So I send her the picture. I 'subscribed and searched specifically for a girl' How long have you been dating? Subscribing to tiktok only fans live girls is not going to win the hearts of women in your life and she doesn't need fashion tips from your tiktok Only fans viewing.. Not sure if you can recover from this but live and learn. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Martin123 Posted February 12, 2022 Author Share Posted February 12, 2022 But why is only fans different to porn? Why do women view it as worse then porn. The woman on only fans shows her body just like a porn star. The chances of a chance encounter are the same as with a porn star. Women watch porn. If all porn were only available to watch by free subscription then does that mean she will never watch porn. Porn stars have only fans pages. Certain celebs have only fans pages. Katie price for example. Why is there any difference if you aren't paying for either Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 4 minutes ago, Martin123 said: But why is only fans different to porn? Why do women view it as worse then porn. This debate doesn't matter if your GF us put off by what you're doing 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Martin123 Posted February 12, 2022 Author Share Posted February 12, 2022 It's not a debate between my and her. That's done with. I'm trying to educate myself, hoping someone will make me understand a different point of view Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 1 minute ago, Martin123 said: It's not a debate between my and her. That's done with. Did she end it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Martin123 Posted February 12, 2022 Author Share Posted February 12, 2022 No we're still together. We didn't argue about it. She just couldn't explain her point of view to where it makes sense to me.. We're good Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 The fans only is you checking out/following a specific person while porn is rather random/nameless just acts of sex. Both are different animals. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 (edited) 6 hours ago, Martin123 said: But why is only fans different to porn? Why do women view it as worse then porn. You don't interact with a movie file. You interact with an actual person on sites like that. Plus you work with the chick... real bad form. I mean reeeeeaaaaly bad. Quote She just couldn't explain her point of view to where it makes sense to me.. Show her Smackie and my posts. She'll get it then. Quote We're good Famous last words. Nah, my dude... this has been filed away and she's on heightened alert. Edited February 12, 2022 by kendahke 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Martin123 Posted February 14, 2022 Author Share Posted February 14, 2022 So. I've worked out what the problem is and asked her and she agrees. We're on the same page. It's got nothing to do with it being a naked women I looked at. She doesn't care. I knew she wouldn't care about that when I sent it her. She watches porn. She doesn't care if I watch porn. It's nothing to do with specifically searching for a girl either as I couldn't see the difference between that and searching for a porn star. As stated many times to people giving me their views but not reading my post correctly. I do not work with this girl. I have no idea who she is. She was at my workplace having a photo shoot. She does not work there. Now. My problem was trying to understand why she see's only fans and porn different. And she couldn't explain why but she just does I've worked out it's because in the other end of this account is the woman herself. She's uploading her own photos well as porn it is a producer etc who is filming girls for his/her website. So even though it was free and there was no chance of communication it's kind of the same as going on Facebook and looking at photos of the user. Had this been the photographers only fans page and not the girl in the photo then there wouldn't have been a problem. So to take away from this. There's nothing wrong with trying to understand your woman's mind. Just not doing something because she doesn't like it doesn't help the relationship grow and get stronger. Now I understand and it makes sense to me we're stronger as a couple Link to post Share on other sites
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