Author Lisa80 Posted March 8, 2022 Author Share Posted March 8, 2022 2 hours ago, BaileyB said: No, it wasn’t fair to you. It never is fair to the other woman/man. This is text book affair stuff - he’s been playing it straight from the text book. As you have learned, married men have a way of landing on their feet. They find a way to get their needs met - if not you, he will turn to his wife or find himself another woman. As you said, time for you to look forward and find what you really want in life - I know. I guess when it’s you in the situation you want to believe you’re the exception and it’s different from the classic scenarios but I guess it very rarely is…except with my childrens’ father, who seemed to get the happy ending! I did say to him multiple times I can’t be your therapist, and he admits he has told me too much about their issues but says he has no one else to talk to. He said they had clear the air talks last week where his partner told him she felt like she was losing him, and I think that’s probably been the catalyst for the conversation we had. I’ve spoken to the doctor today about therapy and they’ve also suggested a very low dosage of anti depressants when I described how I was feeling, not just over this but the situarion with my father, finding life as a single parent hard etc. I’m quite apprehensive about trying them but at the moment I am feeling pretty low and think can they really do much harm. Going to do some research and have a think anyway! Link to post Share on other sites
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