Received a text message at 5 am that she is stranded in the city!

[uzi771]

Hi,

I been chatting to a girl online for a while now, but yesterday it was 5 am that she messaged me saying "I am stranded in the city. im afraid. can you please do me a favor and send me $65"

Later in the day when i asked her why she was stranded in the city at 5 am she didnt want to talk about it. 

What does it mean when a girl gets stranded in the city at 5 am and then ask for money? 

Why would someone gets stranded in the city early that time at all?

Edited March 11, 2022 by uzi771

[SingFish]

11 minutes ago, uzi771 said:

What does it mean when a girl gets stranded in the city at 5 am and then ask for money? 

Plus contacting someone you don't really know for emergency help? Someone not very in control of their life I would guess.

[uzi771]

1 minute ago, SingFish said:

Plus contacting someone you don't really know for emergency help? Someone not very in control of their life I would guess.

Maybe she wanted money to get a ride home you think?

But when i asked her what happened she said she doesnt want to talk about it. why do you think she didnt want to tell me what happened?

[glows]

21 minutes ago, uzi771 said:

Maybe she wanted money to get a ride home you think?

But when i asked her what happened she said she doesnt want to talk about it. why do you think she didnt want to tell me what happened?

Because it's a scam, fake, she was high or needed drugs, got drunk on the side of the road and no ride or wallet, someone else was fooling around with her phone and it wasn't actually her, who knows. Does it matter if you'll never speak with her again since she's evasive? 

Don't worry about her. See if there are other matches and block/delete her contact.

[uzi771]

22 minutes ago, glows said:

Because it's a scam, fake, she was high or needed drugs, got drunk on the side of the road and no ride or wallet, someone else was fooling around with her phone and it wasn't actually her, who knows. Does it matter if you'll never speak with her again since she's evasive? 

Don't worry about her. See if there are other matches and block/delete her contact.

The problem is that im obsessed with her because she is pretty....

when I message her that i love her she replies back saying she loves me too

[SingFish]

8 minutes ago, uzi771 said:

The problem is that im obsessed with her because she is pretty....

when I message her that i love her she replies back saying she loves me too

Have you met? 

[uzi771]

20 minutes ago, SingFish said:

Have you met? 

no. just online 

[SingFish]

20 minutes ago, uzi771 said:

no. just online 

And you've talked to her live?

[uzi771]

1 hour ago, SingFish said:

And you've talked to her live?

Yeah. she is a real girl. 

I message her on WhatsApp. When I message her on WhatsApp she doesnt see my message or come to WhatsApp after some days. When I asked her if she doesnt come to WhatsApp because she doesnt like me or not interested anymore she says no its because she is busy. 

Edited March 12, 2022 by uzi771

[marebear20]

3 hours ago, uzi771 said:

The problem is that im obsessed with her because she is pretty....

when I message her that i love her she replies back saying she loves me too

I see that you've met online in which I met my current boyfriend online as well. I can understand the pull on an online connection, but they can never stay online. There has to be a motive to meet in person. Have you met her in person or done a facetime type of situation? You said that you message her on WhatsApp but why not an actual phone number. This situation seems a little fishy if you have never truly meet in person or at least video called to see her face. It is so easy nowadays to steal photos of pretty girls or handsome guys and pose them as you which is known as catfishing. Some people do this for the compliments/gratification it can get them whereas others do it to scam people out of their money. I think you should investigate whether she is who she says she is. Don't be fooled by a pretty picture. Be safe!

[uzi771]

33 minutes ago, marebear20 said:

I see that you've met online in which I met my current boyfriend online as well. I can understand the pull on an online connection, but they can never stay online. There has to be a motive to meet in person. Have you met her in person or done a facetime type of situation? You said that you message her on WhatsApp but why not an actual phone number. This situation seems a little fishy if you have never truly meet in person or at least video called to see her face. It is so easy nowadays to steal photos of pretty girls or handsome guys and pose them as you which is known as catfishing. Some people do this for the compliments/gratification it can get them whereas others do it to scam people out of their money. I think you should investigate whether she is who she says she is. Don't be fooled by a pretty picture. Be safe!

no its not catfish, we video chatted. its a real girl

she is living in another country so we never met in person. 

Edited March 12, 2022 by uzi771

[ShyViolet]

I hope you weren't gullible enough to send her that money.  When someone you have never even met in person sends you a crazy message like that and asks you for money, it should be a red flag to you that this person is either a scammer or someone who isn't making responsible choices in life.  

It's concerning that you think you "love" an online penpal who you've never met, who lives in another country.  Don't lose sight of the fact that this is just a fantasy built up in you head and you don't know this person.

[uzi771]

9 minutes ago, ShyViolet said:

I hope you weren't gullible enough to send her that money.  When someone you have never even met in person sends you a crazy message like that and asks you for money, it should be a red flag to you that this person is either a scammer or someone who isn't making responsible choices in life.  

It's concerning that you think you "love" an online penpal who you've never met, who lives in another country.  Don't lose sight of the fact that this is just a fantasy built up in you head and you don't know this person.

Actually there are two girls that i chat online. one is in Australia and another one is in USA. Both are real girls, i video chatted with them.

But yeah both of them are not available often online on WhatsApp for me to chat with them. When I message them, they dont even see my message for days. They would say they are just busy. 

I say to both girls that i love them and they say they love me too.

[ExpatInItaly]

24 minutes ago, uzi771 said:

I say to both girls that i love them and they say they love me too.

It's not love when you have never met, uzi. 

Don't send these online strangers money.  

[uzi771]

13 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

It's not love when you have never met, uzi. 

Don't send these online strangers money.  

But when i talk to them about living together in the future and things like that they dont mind. they dont tell me off. its as if they agree with me or like the idea though. 

[ExpatInItaly]

14 minutes ago, uzi771 said:

But when i talk to them about living together in the future and things like that they dont mind. they dont tell me off. its as if they agree with me or like the idea though. 

It's not real though, uzi. 

They'll say what you want to hear so they can take advantage of you and text you at 5am for money. 

You need to be smarter here. 

[uzi771]

44 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

It's not real though, uzi. 

They'll say what you want to hear so they can take advantage of you and text you at 5am for money. 

You need to be smarter here. 

They are pretty though. They are above average in terms of looks. Thats why im so into them.

[Lisa]

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