NEB01 Posted March 15, 2022 Share Posted March 15, 2022 Hi all, Quick question, hoping someone else has this issue. I have only been in a couple serious relationships and over the past couple years I’ve been about as single as you can be. Countless hookups and no emotions felt toward any of them. About 6 weeks ago I met a girl randomly and we clicked, a couple weeks in she made the move on me and I told her I wanted to wait (way out of character for me) because she’s a family friend and to be quite honest I have been losing interest in woman as soon as I have sex with them. A week later I finally gave in and wasn’t really getting the best performance out of myself. This has gone on for the past couple times we’ve had sex, bad sex drive leading to pushing rope. Has anyone had lack of sex drive when entering a serious relationship? I would say my current feelings are very nervous because I’m really happy to finally have found someone that I really like. And I’m also worried I’m going to do what I usually do and lose interest. She is extremely attractive and I’m very attracted to her in every way. I’m worried because this is out of character because when it comes to a one night stand a gust of wind will have me at full mast. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 15, 2022 Share Posted March 15, 2022 8 hours ago, NEB01 said: I have been losing interest in woman as soon as I have sex with them. A week later I finally gave in and wasn’t really getting the best performance out of myself. Get to a physician about the ED. Ask for a referral to a qualified therapist. Perhaps it's anxiety or situational ED. Perhaps, like porn, you've simply conditioned yourself to respond to distant random unemotional sex. Either way take a break and end it with her until you sort yourself out. Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted March 15, 2022 Share Posted March 15, 2022 15 hours ago, NEB01 said: Hi all, Quick question, hoping someone else has this issue. I have only been in a couple serious relationships and over the past couple years I’ve been about as single as you can be. Countless hookups and no emotions felt toward any of them. About 6 weeks ago I met a girl randomly and we clicked, a couple weeks in she made the move on me and I told her I wanted to wait (way out of character for me) because she’s a family friend and to be quite honest I have been losing interest in woman as soon as I have sex with them. A week later I finally gave in and wasn’t really getting the best performance out of myself. This has gone on for the past couple times we’ve had sex, bad sex drive leading to pushing rope. Has anyone had lack of sex drive when entering a serious relationship? I would say my current feelings are very nervous because I’m really happy to finally have found someone that I really like. And I’m also worried I’m going to do what I usually do and lose interest. She is extremely attractive and I’m very attracted to her in every way. I’m worried because this is out of character because when it comes to a one night stand a gust of wind will have me at full mast. It seems like too much too soon. How can this be close to a serious relationship if you've only met six weeks ago? And she's not a random person if she's also a family friend. There's a lot of pressure if she is a family friend as you both share mutual circles of friends and know the same family members. Slow things down and take your time getting to know one another. Link to post Share on other sites
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