A painful experience

[Rob]

I’ve been married for a few years but last year was very hard for me. I had to work a lot of overtime and my wife was feeling a bit lonely and depressed. This guy I know, who just so happens to be a friend of a friend, got to know my wife and invited her over for some drinks. Well things led to things and they had sex. I was devastated when she confessed to me what had happened. She told me it meant nothing and that she wished she never did it.

 

I tried to forget the whole thing, but one day my friend invited me to go to this big party that he was having at this guy’s house. I shouldn’t have gone, but all my friends were going. When I got there, I shocked to see an enlarged framed photo of my wife totally nude. Not only had this guy have sex with her, but he took a photo and put it on display for all to see. When I saw it, I felt like I just relived the time I found out she had been unfaithful to me. I was really upset having everyone looking at it and commenting about her body. I tried to take it down but was stopped and thrown out of the house. My friend later said he didn’t know about the picture. He claimed I over reacted a bit and I have to learn to accept the past. I tried, but it still bothers me. To this guy, my wife was nothing but a conquest and this photo was his trophy to show off to everyone. To me it was a painful reminder of the liberties he took with her. Am I over reacting?

[julia]

No way. This a horrible, horrible thing that has happened to you. I understand how you must feel. embarrassed, betrayed, hurt and angry. At least your wife confessed to you showing she is honest you must try to forgive her and move on. I would dissassociate myself and my wife from these people at all costs.They are truly evil. Get away from them and work on your realationship so that this will not happen again..

 

xxxjuliaxxx

 

I've been married for a few years but last

year was very hard for me. I had to work a lot of overtime and my wife was feeling a bit lonely and depressed. This guy I know, who just so happens to be a friend of a friend, got to know my wife and invited her over for some drinks. Well things led to things and they had sex. I was devastated when she confessed to me what had happened. She told me it meant nothing and that she wished she never did it. I tried to forget the whole thing, but one day my friend invited me to go to this big party that he was having at this guy's house. I shouldn't have gone, but all my friends were going. When I got there, I shocked to see an enlarged framed photo of my wife totally nude. Not only had this guy have sex with her, but he took a photo and put it on display for all to see. When I saw it, I felt like I just relived the time I found out she had been unfaithful to me. I was really upset having everyone looking at it and commenting about her body. I tried to take it down but was stopped and thrown out of the house. My friend later said he didn't know about the picture. He claimed I over reacted a bit and I have to learn to accept the past. I tried, but it still bothers me. To this guy, my wife was nothing but a conquest and this photo was his trophy to show off to everyone. To me it was a painful reminder of the liberties he took with her. Am I over reacting?

[Tony T]

You travel in a circle of human vermin, like worms, maggots, roaches, etc. These people are subhuman. Anybody who would screw your wife and then put up her nude photo for everyone at a party to see in your presence is beneath any human standard of existence. Worms and maggots don't do that.

 

Frankly, there are some people who would think you made this up because it is so far fetched. But after reading so many posts here, I believe just about everything.

 

This whole thing is your wife's responsibility. Your wife consented to the sex and consented to having her picture taken. While it was extremely distasteful for this guy to display her picture, it was a sin against you and your relationship for your wife to do what she did.

 

See an attorney. If your wife did not sign a release to have her nude picture displayed or published, you may sue this guy for public humiliation and breach of agreement and receive monies from his homeowner's insurance if he has no money of his own.

 

I'd say you could settle out of court for at least $50,000 to $100,000 or, if you went to a jury, twice that much. (I am not an attorney so this is my opinion...but I've seen lots of courtroom cases). You certainly have lots of witnesses. I'd say when this guy gets a demand letter from your attorney, who would probably take the case for a percentage, he will probably destroy the picture...so you definitely want to get an injunction against him doing that first. Even if he does, there are already lots of witnesses. Get as many of their names and addresses as possible prior to seeing the attorney. Keep your mouth shut about what you want to do.

 

Now, when you have some serious money out of this, try to find a wife who won't cheat on you and pose nude for the boys. With $100,000 cash in your pocket, this shouldn't be hard to do.

 

And spot me a five if you would!!!

 

If you made this up, it wasn't funny.