Alvi Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 (edited) What attracted you to her in a first place? I mean, there is a big long gap between a first date and people getting married. How often did you date and saw each other before deciding to get married? Did she act and dressed completely differed when you first met her? Did she let herself go (gosh, I hate this term) during her marriage to you? I wonder, was this an arranged marriage where you meet your partner first time at the alter or something similar. What is sexy for you? You have to be realistic here. If all you do together is watch TV, what can you expect. It is highly unlikely she is ever going to stand up during a commercial break while you watch a TV and start a striptease. Why do you expect her to do all the work alone, why not try to partake? What have you done to make her feel sexy and desirable lately or ever at that? Do you tell her regularly that you find her wildly attractive? Try to communicate about what makes her happy and unhappy with her life. What are her sexual limits, how far she is willing and unwilling to go. How about you taking her out for a night out of town. But before that why not stop at the hairdresser to get her hair and makeup done. You could go shopping for a sexy dress or a nice dress at least (you could ask salesperson for help in selection). That would make look and feel sexy. Or how about taking her lingerie shopping and you having a pleasure taking it off her later on. Even wearing some sexy undergarments, which no one can see, might help her feel a bit sexier inside. Edited April 6, 2022 by Alvi Link to post Share on other sites
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