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Ex and the beach


Prue Owens

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Is it weird that my ex still visits the beach in my town? There are other perfectly good beaches a few miles away.But he chooses to come to the beach in my town. we broke up 2 years ago. But sometimes see him around in the summer (we also no longer talk). it was a bad relationship andI dread going to town in the summer as I know he'll most likely be around. I just want to move on with my life. 

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How did the relationship end?

It may be where he feels most comfortable. Sometimes people are creatures of habit and it doesn’t really mean more than that. It’s like a favourite bar or restaurant. Or the place you go and feel most comfortable, the crowd you like. Or the toilets nearby and the same ice cream shop with the best ice cream, or whatever. 

Go to the beach and don’t let it stop you from enjoying being outside. Make a thing of it and bring a friend. Don’t worry about him. 

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6 hours ago, Prue Owens said:

. we broke up 2 years ago. I just want to move on with my life. 

There's nothing you can do about that.

Why not get a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men for a low-key coffee ?

The best thing you can do is cultivate indifference and have a "who cares"? attitude toward an ex.

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