lovemuscle Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 Hi ill try to make this brief as i can not confusing but i started seing someone who left there abusive huband of 22 yrs and basically she got her own apt and still has ssome agreement with money her husband is giving her minus the courts but now that will change because he found out about me and said he will prolong this if she continues to commit. She already had to give her cell back and get a new phone and number i guess via him but she also blocked me on fb. Here is the rest. She told me she went for an ultrasound and they found fertalized egg in her filopian tubes and SHE HAD THIS HAPPEN BEFORE WITH HUSBAND but she neve rhad kids . A day or so after she said this all was fine meaning she admits shes in love with me but i got into a text argument and went that rought not in her person which i did this many times and she ignoremed me butnow she said i need to get done what i need to get done and just wont talk to me . Now this is via social media and text. Not in person becaue i did not go to her apt since then and ilve a mile away. what is going onhere. OH and the husband legally cannot stop her income she was always getting in state of pa. but prolong suf. She absolutely is not going back to husband and there isno other guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovemuscle Posted April 6, 2022 Author Share Posted April 6, 2022 oh by the way to add she has not reached out for about 7 days already. and we were together every night for sic months. also a side note . with this pregnancy ucannot have sex for a while and we had a great sex life . Im thinking she could of did this if she though i may run . Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 Leave her alone and let her sort out her divorce. Don't get caught in the crossfire of this. Link to post Share on other sites
vla1120 Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 I'm sorry you're going through this. Coming out of an abusive relationship is surely taking its toll on her, especially if he is threatening her and still trying to control her. I hope she has a support system, or someone she can turn to so that she is not inclined to go back to the abusive husband. All you can do is give her space and let her know that you are here for her if/when she needs you. She may need time, she should hopefully be able to get therapy to help her acclimate to life without the abuse. Link to post Share on other sites
dramafreezone Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 So give her space. What is the alternative, keep purusing and making the situation more stressful for both of you? It's not up to you to fix her life, she has to fix her own life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted April 6, 2022 Share Posted April 6, 2022 It would seem if the baby is yours she would want and need you by her side while she goes through the procedure. Does this mean she's still having sex with her husband too and this is his baby? He is there with her and that is what she wants. If she really wanted to move on from him she would not accept his help so she wouldn't be obliged to do as he asks. Does she have a job and are her relatives near by? Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted April 7, 2022 Share Posted April 7, 2022 On 4/5/2022 at 9:40 PM, lovemuscle said: She told me she went for an ultrasound and they found fertalized egg in her filopian tubes and SHE HAD THIS HAPPEN BEFORE WITH HUSBAND but she neve rhad kids . Umm I think this is an ectopic pregnancy, which can't proceed to term. If she's not talking to you, she blocked you, then that should tell you that she wants you to leave her alone. So leave the woman alone and stop chasing her. She has enough drama going on in her life. Back off and respect her boundaries. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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