Author Sugarkane2 Posted May 11, 2022 Author Share Posted May 11, 2022 23 hours ago, stillafool said: Is there a reason you don't answer any questions? I think I’ve tried to answer them? Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted May 12, 2022 Share Posted May 12, 2022 (edited) 6 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: I think I’ve tried to answer them? You haven't answered any question I have asked. This has spanned years by now. It doesn't appear that you take any responsibility at all for your own life and what happens in it. You've definitely participated a great deal in the unfortunate situation you find yourself in today. Also, you have many different paths you can choose to follow to improve on it. They are likely to be difficult but whether you stay stuck like you are, or move forward, is up to you. Obviously you have support, since it seems that others are mainly responsible for you and your family. Edited May 12, 2022 by NuevoYorko 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane2 Posted May 12, 2022 Author Share Posted May 12, 2022 2 hours ago, NuevoYorko said: You haven't answered any question I have asked. This has spanned years by now. It doesn't appear that you take any responsibility at all for your own life and what happens in it. You've definitely participated a great deal in the unfortunate situation you find yourself in today. Also, you have many different paths you can choose to follow to improve on it. They are likely to be difficult but whether you stay stuck like you are, or move forward, is up to you. Obviously you have support, since it seems that others are mainly responsible for you and your family. How do I not take responsibility? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted May 12, 2022 Share Posted May 12, 2022 So you live with your daughter and parents and he lives with your son and his parents but you two are not divorced yet? How old is he? Do you both work? Have either of you had drug problems or issues with violence? CPS does not randomly take children away. But if you have your daughter and he has your son what, exactly, is the problem? Visitation and child support? Are either of you required to have supervised visitation? Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted May 12, 2022 Share Posted May 12, 2022 9 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: How do I not take responsibility? Can you give examples of any ways that you HAVE taken responsibility? During your time on LS, all you've done is blame others for your problems. I don't recall any posts that mention things you're doing to improve your self or your circumstances. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane2 Posted May 12, 2022 Author Share Posted May 12, 2022 5 hours ago, NuevoYorko said: Can you give examples of any ways that you HAVE taken responsibility? During your time on LS, all you've done is blame others for your problems. I don't recall any posts that mention things you're doing to improve your self or your circumstances. Because if my dad had of kept to his promises, this disaster might not have happened Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted May 13, 2022 Share Posted May 13, 2022 10 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: Because if my dad had of kept to his promises, this disaster might not have happened I can't help but think that you are playing around here, but it's possible that you just aren't capable of taking personal responsibility for anything. If that is the case, thank goodness you don't have responsibility for other human lives. I hope you find a way to live a fulfilling life for yourself. Take care. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted May 13, 2022 Share Posted May 13, 2022 On 4/10/2022 at 6:12 PM, Sugarkane2 said: CPS still wants me to live at my parents so I’m stuck here. Why is that? Are you unemployed? A teenage mother? Struggling with drug or alcohol issues? So you and your daughter live with your parents and your son lives with his father and his parents? Is CPS protecting you, your son or your daughter? How often do you have to report to them and how often do they visit? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted May 13, 2022 Share Posted May 13, 2022 12 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: Because if my dad had of kept to his promises, this disaster might not have happened Most of us make our way in life without handouts from our parents. Why were you unable to succeed without your father's assistance? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 13, 2022 Share Posted May 13, 2022 (edited) 18 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: Because if my dad had of kept to his promises, this disaster might not have happened Again, you're blaming your Dad. What have you done personally to improve your condition and towards getting your kids back? Edited May 13, 2022 by stillafool Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 I can't imagine how it's possible for someone to be in their 30s and still blaming their parents for not giving them money. I do think that your father has a part to play in this... but NOT because he didn't give you money. Rather, it's because of the fact that how someone is raised typically has an impact on how they are in adulthood. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 On 5/13/2022 at 2:42 PM, stillafool said: this disaster might not have happened Try hard to answer this direct question. What was the disaster that led to you losing your child? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sugarkane2 Posted May 18, 2022 Author Share Posted May 18, 2022 On 5/16/2022 at 11:23 PM, Elswyth said: I can't imagine how it's possible for someone to be in their 30s and still blaming their parents for not giving them money. I do think that your father has a part to play in this... but NOT because he didn't give you money. Rather, it's because of the fact that how someone is raised typically has an impact on how they are in adulthood. No Not because he didn’t give me money. It’s because he didn’t help me get work. Link to post Share on other sites
AndyCapp99 Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 6 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: No Not because he didn’t give me money. It’s because he didn’t help me get work. Why can you not find your own work? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 5 hours ago, AndyCapp99 said: Why can you not find your own work? We've been around and around in one thread after another asking these same questions, giving her the same answers, going on 2 years or more now. Nothing has changed. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 19 hours ago, Sugarkane2 said: No Not because he didn’t give me money. It’s because he didn’t help me get work. I... don't really know anyone except for a privileged few (and we're talking less than 1%) who have their current jobs because their father helped them get it. You're not 8 years old... 4 Link to post Share on other sites
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