Please someon help me i am going crazy

[NycMa]

My boyfriend left three days ago to go to Honduras with his Mom to visit his family down there anyway he told me he is going to write me a E-mail when he gets there and he has not yet I am so worried and also mad I mean common there are computers there so why doesn't he just get up and get his butt to a computer. I don't know what to do I mean I am always thinking about him he is the first thing I think about when I wake up in the morning and the last thing I think about before I go to sleep. I cant even believe that I mean wow he is always on my mind and also now I don't know if he is ok or not me and him used to talk everyday and now he is there and I might not even talk to him for 1 month or something like that and if he should call me it will be only for like 10 minutes. Anyway I am seriously going crazy I mean why the hell hasn't he written me and e-mail yet. And he knows that back home here in New York a lot of guys want to go out with me and he cant even call or write and make sure I am faithful, I mean you leave you girl somewhere all by herself expect her not to cheat and then u don't write her oh that just makes me mad. But anyway I love him and I am very worried about him B/c I mean Honduras is a kinda bad place to be in. And no he did not leave me a # so I could call him actually during the time he was preparing to leave I didn't even think about that cuz all I wanted was to spend time with him and not think about him leaving, but all he said is that he is going to E-mail me when he gets there and then call me whenever I have time. Well, someone please tell me what to do cuz I miss him like hell and I cant even sleep right cuz I am thinking oh let me go to the computer and see if I got an e-mail from him.

[Laurynn]

". And he knows that back home here in New York a lot of guys want to go out with me and he cant even call or write and make sure I am faithful, I mean you leave you girl somewhere all by herself expect her not to cheat and then u don't write her oh that just makes me mad. But anyway I love him......"

 

K, wait a minute. You love him, you're going nuts because he hasn't contacted you in 3 days...but then you're saying that he should be checking up on you to make sure you're not cheating? If he knows you love him and he TRUSTS you (like someone SHOULD trust their partner), why would he feel the need to check up and make sure you're not cheating?

 

If he went down there with his MOM, I'm sure he's not getting into trouble. He's probably busy visiting family, no? Who says his family have computer access? And, I'm sure it would be a very expensive call for him to call you......maybe the family he's visiting are poor? or don't have long distance? Maybe he doesn't feel right about charging up a bill on their phone?

 

Hopefully he contacts you soon, though..so at least you know he's safe.

 

Does he not have any family back where you live, that you can contact just to see if they know he and his mom made it there safely?

 

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[NycMa]

Ok they have a Cybercafe there ok so he should have access to one and he or his family is not poor Laurynn.

 

And he has family back here but they all went with him b/c his sister is going to get married.

[Corinna]

Don't worry. Everything will be fine. He probably just arrived and needs to rest for a while. I'm sure that he is spending time with his family and it may have slipped his mind to email you. I'm sure that soon you will receive an email or maybe even a phone call. I'm sure that he's not doing anything wrong. He's just having fun with the family. They're are probably going out often. Latinos are like that. You keep yourself busy and before you know it, you will have your email. I don't know if you're mad. But if you are, don't let him know it. Because if you do, then he'll get mad. And he won't enjoy his vacation. Tell him something like, "I'm glad that you had fun with your family but I was worried about you because I didn't receive an email from you. I didn't know if something happened to you. And I didn't have a phone number to see if you were ok." Then after you say something like that, he will respond.

My boyfriend left three days ago to go to Honduras with his Mom to visit his family down there anyway he told me he is going to write me a E-mail when he gets there and he has not yet I am so worried and also mad I mean common there are computers there so why doesn't he just get up and get his butt to a computer. I don't know what to do I mean I am always thinking about him he is the first thing I think about when I wake up in the morning and the last thing I think about before I go to sleep. I cant even believe that I mean wow he is always on my mind and also now I don't know if he is ok or not me and him used to talk everyday and now he is there and I might not even talk to him for 1 month or something like that and if he should call me it will be only for like 10 minutes. Anyway I am seriously going crazy I mean why the hell hasn't he written me and e-mail yet. And he knows that back home here in New York a lot of guys want to go out with me and he cant even call or write and make sure I am faithful, I mean you leave you girl somewhere all by herself expect her not to cheat and then u don't write her oh that just makes me mad. But anyway I love him and I am very worried about him B/c I mean Honduras is a kinda bad place to be in. And no he did not leave me a # so I could call him actually during the time he was preparing to leave I didn't even think about that cuz all I wanted was to spend time with him and not think about him leaving, but all he said is that he is going to E-mail me when he gets there and then call me whenever I have time. Well, someone please tell me what to do cuz I miss him like hell and I cant even sleep right cuz I am thinking oh let me go to the computer and see if I got an e-mail from him.