Growingtobebetter Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 So I’ve been dating a woman for a little over a year now. Recently we broke up over our relationship issues. I love her but I’m willing to move on if that’s what she truly wants. I’m asking how do I make it right because she told me I made her feel violated. I never meant to do that ever! But she feels that way and I don’t want this to effect her in negative ways. So a little back story to what happened. we were dating long distance for about a year. We would fly or drive back and forth from each other’s cities to see each other. After a while we decided to move together. Almost immediately it just started to feel strained. I was trying but she was slowly getting more and more distant where she wouldn’t kiss or touch me. She would tell me she’s just not that interested in sex. I tried to be understanding but in my mind I was thinking that it wasn’t right we weren’t like this before we’d have wild passionate sex all day not long before. She was feeling overwhelmed with the move and learning to live with me. She hadn’t lived with a guy in a few years so I was thinking it was maybe stress from moving and getting adjusted. So I was backing off and trying not to make an issue of it but I would tell her I have needs too. She said that made her feel guilty. One night I was feeling very frustrated with it not just the sex but I was afraid of getting more and more distant. I just wanted us to be like we were before. She had told me she just didn’t want to have sex. I went to the other room for a bit but started thinking I want to fix this now. I went to lay in bed beside her and after a few minutes kissing her shoulder. I started to run my hands up her leg and grab her breast, I was thinking I wanted to try and turn her on but she was not responsive so I turned over. Anyway we broke up a week later and talking about the relationship she told me I made her feel violated and there were other times we had sex she wasn’t in the mood and she felt like I made her to make me happy. I would never intentionally do that to her but that’s how I made her feel, I feel absolutely horrible about it and just want to make it right. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 Did she move back home? She was foolish to uproot and move in together so quickly There's no coming back from this event or the discord in general. Link to post Share on other sites
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