stillafool Posted May 10, 2022 Share Posted May 10, 2022 22 hours ago, Alpacalia said: What prevents you from telling the woman how hurt you have been by the actions she has taken? I agree with this OP. What about doing this? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author runner1981 Posted May 10, 2022 Author Share Posted May 10, 2022 24 minutes ago, stillafool said: I agree with this OP. What about doing this? I am still too pissed off to even speak to her at the moment. Right now, I am allowing my silence to speak for me and hopefully she will get the hint. What she did was so incredibly tasteless, classless, ignorant, and just plain rude, especially considering my current circumstances. I have never flashed the fairly large sum of money that my husband and I have stashed away in a CD account in her face, nor have I ever even mentioned to her it because that's just not something you do. I'm currently focusing on my work and my husband coming home from the hospital tomorrow afternoon. I'm sure I'll discuss it with her at some point, but now is not the time. It's still too fresh. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted May 10, 2022 Share Posted May 10, 2022 40 minutes ago, runner1981 said: I am still too pissed off to even speak to her at the moment. Right now, I am allowing my silence to speak for me and hopefully she will get the hint. What she did was so incredibly tasteless, classless, ignorant, and just plain rude, especially considering my current circumstances. I have never flashed the fairly large sum of money that my husband and I have stashed away in a CD account in her face, nor have I ever even mentioned to her it because that's just not something you do. I'm currently focusing on my work and my husband coming home from the hospital tomorrow afternoon. I'm sure I'll discuss it with her at some point, but now is not the time. It's still too fresh. Sounds like a good idea. Clear your head a bit and decide on your next move. I have been friends with my friends for just as many years as I can remember, and I would hate to think we couldn't talk things through with each other. Maybe in the end you'll decide that 27 years of friendship isn't worth salvaging given what has transpired. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted May 11, 2022 Share Posted May 11, 2022 I guess the moral of the story is that really its only family you can count on and specifically parents that will always bail a person out. "you are on your own on this one" is unfortunately the harsh stance taken by people with anything of a financial nature especially. It was probably the fact you asked her after you knew she had cash- that clearly is why she snubbed you on it, she viewed you as being "opportunistic" I do feel sympathetic to your situation of course, and its a pity to lose the friendship also, She is not the friend you thought she was can be a tough one to accept also. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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