Mackie909 Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 My first ever post on this site, hope I’m doing it right! so i have a friend of many years who is generally always there to listen to my rants (I’d say I listen more to her rants but anyway) She’s only spoken to one guy before and when she did, I was so attentive and let her rant to me for months Fast forward to recently, my first ever crush that I told her about. She barely responded and changed the subject quickly. She didnt show anywhere near the same energy that I showed her. Its been months and she hasnt asked me about him once, when I mention him the conversation gets so dry that I feel like a burden. Am i being dramatic? I feel bad because out of all of my friends she is there for me most regarding other things, but she just acts so dismissive regarding boys I like, which kinda hurts because I spend a lot of time talking to her about her crushes etc. Any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 3 minutes ago, Mackie909 said: my first ever crush that I told her about. She barely responded and changed the subject quickly. I feel bad because out of all of my friends she is there for me most regarding other things, but she just acts so dismissive regarding boys I like. Make sure you have a variety of friends to confide in, especially if you feel this is uneven. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 16, 2022 Share Posted May 16, 2022 I agree with Wiseman have plenty of other friends to confide in. Some people will dump their drama in your lap for months but can only listen to your love problems once and don't want to hear about it again. Now you know the next time this friend has a bf problem treat her the same way. Just change the subject on her in mid sentence. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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