Author 7779311 Posted May 30, 2022 Author Share Posted May 30, 2022 On 5/27/2022 at 2:40 AM, OKtoday said: Sometimes, we are air-lifted out of a situation, because a better life lies ahead. It’s not always understood, at the time. My husband started an affair while I was pregnant with twins, he left and they married. Changed my life and I didn’t think I’d ever survive those years. Today, I see this as one of the best things that ever happened to me. Of-course, I did not think this during those earlier painful years, when I just wanted to keep my marriage together, but after the cloud lifted, I changed! I was gifted a fairly positive, healthy, peaceful life and I somehow excelled in many ways, which also helped my boys. I let what was best for my boys guide me in dealing with every situation under the sun. I put effort into finding happiness daily…and wherever I could find it. I learned that if you lose something, it doesn’t mean you will now have less.. you may end up with MORE. Our boys are 20 now. One’s in the Marines, the other, in the Navy. They survived too. I’m not sure if it’s right or wrong to write this as I can only imagine the pain that you are faced with today. Please know that I’m thinking of you. Thank You! What an encoutaging story. It would have made it so much harder if I were pregnant. Do you have a relationship with your EX? and how is the relationship between your EX and your boys? Link to post Share on other sites
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