Sgthaytham Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 (edited) I saw her two nights ago. We have some friends in common. We played some darts together, laughed a bit, she gave me some of her food... and I threw a dart and hit her finger. (accidentally!!] Sent her a text joking asking if her finger needed a sling and she replied 3 mins later with "ahahahahaah it's recovered". Tbh it doesn't look good, because I would have thought an interested girl would have asked a question in return? Edited June 3, 2022 by Sgthaytham Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 13 minutes ago, Sgthaytham said: asking if her finger needed a sling and she replied 3 mins later with "ahahahahaah it's recovered". I would have thought an interested girl would have asked a question in return? Ask her out. She seems interested That wasn't really a question that requires an answer or a response. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 3, 2022 Author Share Posted June 3, 2022 15 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Ask her out. She seems interested That wasn't really a question that requires an answer or a response. It was on my mind when we talking just the two of us. We were discussing the Heard/Depp trial amongst other things, but then some other friends showed up... What makes you feel like she might have interest? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 18 minutes ago, Sgthaytham said: What makes you feel like she might have interest? Ask her out. She's talking to you . 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 She's either not interested or can't hold up her end of a conversation. I'd move on Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 3, 2022 Author Share Posted June 3, 2022 18 minutes ago, basil67 said: She's either not interested or can't hold up her end of a conversation. I'd move on Interesting turn of events just now. I didn't reply to her message, but she just sent me "what are your plans for the this weekend?" I work this weekend, but I think I'm just going to shoot my shot and ask her if she's free next week for a game of pool? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 Well that's a nice turn of events! Let us know how it goes 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 You like someone just ask them out regardless if there are signals or not. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 11 hours ago, Sgthaytham said: I didn't reply to her message, but she just sent me "what are your plans for the this weekend?" I think I'm just going to shoot my shot and ask her if she's free next week for a game of pool? You don't have even a spare moment to meet for a drink/coffee? If you are interested in her, try not to stall or put her off. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 4, 2022 Author Share Posted June 4, 2022 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: You don't have even a spare moment to meet for a drink/coffee? If you are interested in her, try not to stall or put her off. I work till 10pm tonight and 9pm tomorrow, so it's a bit difficult to sort a date after work for me. I'm not trying to stall anything, I'd just rather it be on a day we're both free. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 4, 2022 Author Share Posted June 4, 2022 1 hour ago, smackie9 said: You like someone just ask them out regardless if there are signals or not. I do think it's best if their are at least a couple... Saves both of us from embarrassment if the feeling isn't mutual. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 I have been ask out lots of times randomly...there's no awkwardness or embarrassment on my end. Even if I am not interested I am impressed at their confidence for doing so. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 1 hour ago, Sgthaytham said: I'm not trying to stall anything, I'd just rather it be on a day we're both free. Ask soon since she did inquire first. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 4, 2022 Author Share Posted June 4, 2022 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: Ask soon since she did inquire first. Yeah date set for next Saturday. Time and place set too 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 4, 2022 Author Share Posted June 4, 2022 She's got a cracking sense of humour too, which is important to me. I don't want to date uptight women anymore. Anyway, she seems keen. She's asking about my shift over the weekend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 11, 2022 Author Share Posted June 11, 2022 So the date's tonight, but we did see eachother yesterday through our mutual friends. There's no doubt in my mind anymore. I had to leave early because of work this morning, but she was literally on hands a knees pleading me to stay longer haha She teases me quite a bit too, which is really fun, because she can take it too! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted June 11, 2022 Share Posted June 11, 2022 Just go on a date like two normal people. Sans the cockiness. Link to post Share on other sites
dramafreezone Posted June 11, 2022 Share Posted June 11, 2022 4 hours ago, Sgthaytham said: So the date's tonight, but we did see eachother yesterday through our mutual friends. There's no doubt in my mind anymore. I had to leave early because of work this morning, but she was literally on hands a knees pleading me to stay longer haha She teases me quite a bit too, which is really fun, because she can take it too! I think it's great that you scheduled the date a week out. It really helps to build the anticipation. She's been thinking about it all week obviously and you can tell her interest has gone way up. Hope it all goes well. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 11, 2022 Author Share Posted June 11, 2022 1 hour ago, dramafreezone said: I think it's great that you scheduled the date a week out. It really helps to build the anticipation. She's been thinking about it all week obviously and you can tell her interest has gone way up. Hope it all goes well. She sent me a message today saying she woke up late, and then an hour later another message asking if the date was still on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 11, 2022 Author Share Posted June 11, 2022 2 hours ago, Alpacalia said: Just go on a date like two normal people. Sans the cockiness. What cockiness? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 11, 2022 Share Posted June 11, 2022 55 minutes ago, Sgthaytham said: message asking if the date was still on. Is it still on or is she backing out? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 11, 2022 Author Share Posted June 11, 2022 33 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Is it still on or is she backing out? As always I'm not 100% sure, but by experience when a woman asks if it's still on, she's hoping it still is. She hasn't told me otherwise, and my last text to her was see you outside the place at 8h30 Link to post Share on other sites
Mrin Posted June 11, 2022 Share Posted June 11, 2022 53 minutes ago, Sgthaytham said: As always I'm not 100% sure, but by experience when a woman asks if it's still on, she's hoping it still is. She hasn't told me otherwise, and my last text to her was see you outside the place at 8h30 Ya confirm that it is still on 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sgthaytham Posted June 12, 2022 Author Share Posted June 12, 2022 For anyone interested: It went well. Normal nerves at the beginning, but there's obviously good chemistry/banter because we had plenty to talk about. I think she was pretty nervous too as she was a bit clumsy haha. The conversation and the whole night flowed seamlessly. We haven't slept at all. We spent all night together, went back to mine for more drinks, then to her place for more. I personally enjoyed it! I'm off to sleep now 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Weezy1973 Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 On 6/4/2022 at 3:51 AM, smackie9 said: You like someone just ask them out regardless if there are signals or not. This is the best lesson to take away from this thread. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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