Playing games, or is she not interested?

[jtlouis]

I met a girl online about 2 weeks ago. Within that time we had 4 dates. After the second date she asked me to do something with her on a particular date one month from now.

 

We are both in our late 20's. On the fourth date, we had sex. She kept telling me how much she likes looking at me, is into me, I drive her crazy, and then all about how good the sex was. She said I could stay or go home after the sex, but she has to wake up early, so I opted to go home. She walked me outside, we kissed, and she asked me repeatedly to call her the next day. While we were hanging out she also kept asking me "what are you thinking", in the meek type way, as if trying to elicit alot of feelings, but I didnt say much, but kind of smiled, and let her know i enjoyed her company. I have dated alot, and all signs pointed towards her being very into me.

 

So, the next day, i imed her while she was at work, and all she said was "pretty busy"..(The first time I ever got a reponse like that) I imed her when she got home as she signed on, and she never imed me back. I was thinking she might be expecting a call, so I called, left a message, and she never called back.

 

Since it was the day after our first sexual encounter, and she repeatedly asked me to call, I suppose I would feel like a jerk if I didnt. Any advice? Would you act like you didnt notice the fact she did not respond? Or would you bring it up? Do women like to play hard to get after sex? Maybe she feels easy? or insecure? Or is she not into me, although she repeatedly says the exact opposite, and acts the exact opposite way? i.e. Always staring at me, always wanting to kiss me, always wanting to see me, making long term plans etc etc.