SLB2022 Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 So I went on a date on Sunday, it was good and we got on well and laughed away, obviously sometimes it was awkward but I mean that’s what is expected in first dates but I really don’t know about it, I know it was only the first one but I don’t know if I felt that attraction? And obviously I don’t want to hurt anyones feelings but I just don’t know, he has asked me already togo on another date and I feel like I should just to see how it is, can anyone offer advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 If you're on the fence, go on a second date. If you know you are not attracted, then no. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Weezy1973 Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 4 minutes ago, SLB2022 said: ... I feel like I should just to see how it is, can anyone offer advice? Yes. Go on the date. It's not marriage, it's a date. There's literally no commitment at all. If he's getting invested and his hopes up that's on him; you're not responsible for his feelings. Go on the date, if you want to see him again after the date, do. And if you don't want to see him again, don't. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author SLB2022 Posted June 20, 2022 Author Share Posted June 20, 2022 1 minute ago, Weezy1973 said: Yes. Go on the date. It's not marriage, it's a date. There's literally no commitment at all. If he's getting invested and his hopes up that's on him; you're not responsible for his feelings. Go on the date, if you want to see him again after the date, do. And if you don't want to see him again, don't. Yeah that is so true and I feel like he is perhaps getting his hopes up too much and I never want to hurt anyone, but he will reference the future especially like with me and him and I do not know what to say?, I just am completely unsure of the situation 🙈 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 14 minutes ago, SLB2022 said: I don’t know if I felt that attraction? he has asked me already togo on another date and I feel like I should just to see how it is, can anyone offer advice? Yes, go on another date and if you still feel "me" be kind and tell him you're not a match. Sometimes first dates are awkward, so if you're not sure, see how it goes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 1 hour ago, SLB2022 said: Yeah that is so true and I feel like he is perhaps getting his hopes up too much and I never want to hurt anyone, but he will reference the future especially like with me and him and I do not know what to say?, I just am completely unsure of the situation 🙈 You should go just to ease your mind that there was no romantic attraction, but pay for your share of the date. You never know, you might feel completely different about him after the 2nd date. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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