deepthinking Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 (edited) Not once but she really can ramp up the criticism, so I have decided to be there with her but stop telling her about my life... less to criticise/less pain... she is no expert but is an xxxxx Started off as fun 25 years ago. She said sorry but since this time was not the first time {100's over the years} she has hurt me, I cannot really rely on her apology. Now and again remarks would be ok, ' but they are like a random cannon fire. Nobody else I know is like this about me. Not sure what to think! Both she pronouns. she is 58 me 70 Edited June 28, 2022 by a LoveShack.org Moderator offsensive Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 2 hours ago, deepthinking said: she has hurt me... It appears from your post that you are friends with a woman that treats you poorly. Which begs the question of "Why stay friends with someone who causes you pain??" I understand you have known this person for 25 years, but it looks like this friendship has run its course and is now toxic. Time to part ways. 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author deepthinking Posted June 28, 2022 Author Share Posted June 28, 2022 1 hour ago, Happy Lemming said: It appears from your post that you are friends with a woman that treats you poorly. Which begs the question of "Why stay friends with someone who causes you pain??" I understand you have known this person for 25 years, but it looks like this friendship has run its course and is now toxic. Time to part ways. Yes. I am planning a slow fade, drama free, just busy and will ring soon... Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 Sadly some friendships are only for a time in our lives, not our entire lives. There's nothing wrong with ending a relationship that isn't good for your mental/spiritual health. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 1 hour ago, deepthinking said: Yes. I am planning a slow fade, drama free, just busy and will ring soon... I agree with the others. Let go. No point sticking around being someone's punching bag or enabling whatever she has going on. It is ok to move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author deepthinking Posted June 28, 2022 Author Share Posted June 28, 2022 9 minutes ago, glows said: I agree with the others. Let go. No point sticking around being someone's punching bag or enabling whatever she has going on. It is ok to move on. i need new people which takes time Link to post Share on other sites
mortensorchid Posted July 2, 2022 Share Posted July 2, 2022 That happened to me not once but twice when I was in my early/mid twenties. I had two childhood friends (both I had known since we were little kids) who I fell out with. Looking back there were many issues with both of our relationships. A was my very first friend, we lived across the street from each other. I thought this relationship would be lifelong, but she felt otherwise about it. B was also one of my first friends, our families were tight friends. While both had different circumstances, much of it had to do with jealousies, rivalry, and that both of them were users / gold diggers, I realize now that we were just not meant to be friends. If we had met today, as adults, we would not have liked each other because of those facts. They were both memories and nostalgia which can and do get in the way of being reasonable. SO I moved on, and so did they. Those were not the first mistakes either of them had made, it won't be the last. Move on from this. My life is better without them today. Chances are yours will be as well without this woman. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Myabee Posted July 9, 2022 Share Posted July 9, 2022 On 6/28/2022 at 12:58 PM, deepthinking said: Yes. I am planning a slow fade, drama free, just busy and will ring soon... Good for you. I was in the same boat as you with a girlfriend of mine and I choose the slow fade away. It worked. I came to realize I was better off. You got this😊 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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