Starwars Posted July 3, 2022 Share Posted July 3, 2022 (edited) I can’t stop myself from saying and doing things to upset my wife and child, I know there are ways to stop myself but I would rather say something hurtful then apologise after, it’s like I need to do it. I also have a habit of telling my wife I know how she thinks and feels better than she does, Edited July 4, 2022 by a LoveShack.org Moderator clarify title Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted July 3, 2022 Share Posted July 3, 2022 2 hours ago, Starwars said: I can’t stop myself from saying and doing things to upset my wife and child, I know there are ways to stop myself but I would rather say something hurtful then apologise after, it’s like I need to do it. I also have a habit of telling me wife I know how she thinks and feels better than she does, Have you seen a therapist? What you describe is emotionally abusive. You will have to talk to someone about your manipulative habits. Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted July 3, 2022 Share Posted July 3, 2022 4 hours ago, Starwars said: I can’t stop myself from saying and doing things to upset my wife and child... Do you have some sort of resentment towards your wife?? Do you feel you are doing more (for the upkeep of the family) than she does?? Does saying these things to your wife and child bring you some type of fulfillment -- like you are better than them?? Are you the type of person that thrives on "trauma and drama"?? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 4, 2022 Share Posted July 4, 2022 There is no question in your post. Are you wanting help to change or is this just a confessional? Link to post Share on other sites
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