Sunriser0741986 Posted October 24, 2005 Share Posted October 24, 2005 I've been with a guy (we are both male) for almost 7 months..Ever since about 2 months ago the real "loving" feelings I had for him have dissipated...he's a rare guy.loving, caring, trustworthy, everything you could want in a companion. But I found that he moved things to fast..and I think it scared me..he brought up marriage once..and kept pushing moving out together into our own place despite the fact that I told him I wasn't ready to yet since I don't even have my own car..But I didn't realize that is what was making me feel differently..so I thought it was that I just wasn't attracted to him..which I'm not really..Anyways..I had him come over and cried while I broke his heart..my heart broke too..now I can't stop staring at his picture..wanting to pick up the phone and tell him it was a mistake..I'm not sexually attracted to him and yet I miss him so much now..I feel like if I let him go I'm going to regret it for a long long time and if I go back this will happen again..(I don't know) I feel hopeless,helpless,and exhausted with regret..I don't know what to do.. Link to post Share on other sites
Baz Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 Give yourself a month to cope with your new situation. If things haven't improved or got worse, go and talk to him and see if there is a compromise that accommodates your needs versus his. Link to post Share on other sites
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