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I met this girl and we talked for a while walking. Our conversation was cut short by something and at the end, she said “to be continued”. Whenever I saw her later, she would smile at me. When I got off the bus at the end of the day, I said how I’m often nearby to where she lives, so we will definitely see each other again. I now follow her on Instagram and she follows me back. Not sure how u should go about meeting up with her again. I only have her Instagram, so that is how I would message her. Is it weird if I text her something like “hey, it’s ___. Would love to finish that conversation if you have time!” 

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18 minutes ago, anonymous_1234 said:

. I only have her Instagram, so that is how I would message her. 

How do you know each other? Work? Commuting? School? How old is she?

You're already on social media so message her and ask if she would like to go for a coffee/drink this week/weekend.  Don't be vague and talk about "finishing conversations" when what you actually want is to let her know you're interested by asking her out.

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The man I have been seeing pretended he was a dog groomer.

I contacted him to see how much he charged and he said, "No charge. But your furkid has to join us for some ice cream afterwards."

My cheeks twitched. 😊

Just follow your instincts and use your discretion.

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5 hours ago, anonymous_1234 said:

I met this girl and we talked for a while walking. Our conversation was cut short by something and at the end, she said “to be continued”. Whenever I saw her later, she would smile at me. When I got off the bus at the end of the day, I said how I’m often nearby to where she lives, so we will definitely see each other again. I now follow her on Instagram and she follows me back. Not sure how u should go about meeting up with her again. I only have her Instagram, so that is how I would message her. Is it weird if I text her something like “hey, it’s ___. Would love to finish that conversation if you have time!” 

Suggest meeting up and ask her when she is free. Keep it simple. 

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Just ask her out to do something. Give a day, time, a place and a direct plan. If she says too busy, no, or whatever, that means she's not interested. 

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If you see her outside….is there is a local restaurant or coffee shop you can say fir her to come with you there, are there steps at her door to deposit dien and talk?

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I would just tell her that you’d like to see her again and ask if she’s interested in grabbing a coffee or a drink.

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