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Am I asking for too much for a guy to take a charge and arrange a first meet?


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1 hour ago, Calmandfocused said:

I too, am baffled by this phenomenon. 
 

Daters who want to “text date” and nothing more. No interest in meeting or even talking on the phone. Just texting! 
 

Gone are the days where men/ women are being used for sex. They’re being used for texts! 
 

I can’t see the appeal personally. 
 

Op don’t waste your time. Say to him; I’m free on Xyz date and time and if he doesn’t take the bait, move on. 

yes I remember pre-covid there was a bit of a stigma against people who used the apps to just text and not meet. 

Now it's seems like it's become normal and perfectly acceptable. I guess it's the VR, WFH world we live in these days - a virtual conversation is as good as in-person one, to many people. I find it absolutely bizarre, and so incredibly empty, not fun and superficial. 

even the "I don't wanna waste this persons time by just texting them" feeling would get people off the app and give you a chance in person. Such days are truly gone. 

And that's not even to idealize the pre covid dating app days. it was bad then too

 

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