stillafool Posted August 18, 2022 Share Posted August 18, 2022 21 minutes ago, Onlyoneforme said: I'm older I'm 48 and he is 43...I blocked him the same day he dumped me from my phone from messenger he doesn't have IG or Facebook so I don't have to worry about those I deleted all our pics all our messages...I took all the things in my house that would remind me of him and I am looking to move because of course he knows where I live and work I can't leave my job but I don't think he would show up there... That isn't a large age difference. Glad you blocked him and hopefully you won't have to bear the expense of moving because of him. I would hate someone showing up at my house without calling first also. I bet he wouldn't let you do that. It sounds like you're on the right tract. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Onlyoneforme Posted August 18, 2022 Author Share Posted August 18, 2022 Yeah I'm done with him...my anxiety is better since the break up he triggered me...this is the last time he's breaking up with me this is final because I am done..no more chances to use me ever again...I'm a lil ticked off a out the plane ticket to Vegas I lost my money there...sigh seems like I lost a lot of money out of this deal sheesh...thanks for listening I aslo posted about my birthday gift that I paid for...smh I acn only laugh now of how naive I was...you live and you learn.. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted August 19, 2022 Share Posted August 19, 2022 The more you write, the clearer it is that this break-up was not really out of the blue. He's been treating you very badly for years. I am not surprised it ended this way, based on all the other erratic and shady behaviour you describe. But OP, I have to ask, have you had healthy relationships before? It seems that your bar is very low, and I am wondering why. Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted August 25, 2022 Share Posted August 25, 2022 On 8/17/2022 at 7:02 PM, Onlyoneforme said: It is very painful not knowing we were good we had all these plans and he was excited and affectionate and caring checking in me sending me texts thru out the day telling me was thinking about...it's so weird I can't comprehend thank you for your kind words.. Did you do something he was not happy about around the time he ended it? Link to post Share on other sites
Estes Posted August 26, 2022 Share Posted August 26, 2022 He probably figured he couldn't squeeze anymore money out of you so he moved on to the next. Or onto the numerous others he was doing the same thing to at the same time he was doing it with you. Listen when you're in a relationship with a guy who makes you buy and gift wrap your own present for yourself, you've got the wrong guy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted August 26, 2022 Share Posted August 26, 2022 Yeah, he was at the point with you where his debts were getting ready to come due so he exited the scene to keep from paying. Louse. He's done this before with other lonely women. He's probably working on another one as we speak and that is another reason he made his exit. OP, don't give another man any money unless you are legally married to him. Link to post Share on other sites
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