Calldd Posted August 20, 2022 Share Posted August 20, 2022 (edited) Wanted more of an outsiders view on the matter instead of my family saying the usual she was never good for you blah blah. The fact of the matter is and the truthful answers id like from you guys is that i was with a girl for 7 years, she got pregnant within 2 months of our relationship and we have a son which is within my families custody as the relationship was domestically violent and her daughters with her father etc. She has no interest in having a relationship with her kids and is fixated on her new boyfriend only which she got with within a month of me leaving her as enough was enough. Do you think this is a rebound relationship to get over me? Plus the most important fact that she has zero interest in seeing her kids i cant for the life of me justify that fact in my head. Its obviously upsetting as my son wont open up to me that he misses his absent mother, some advice on the whole matter would be great thanks!!? Edited August 22, 2022 by a LoveShack.org Moderator paragraphs Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 20, 2022 Share Posted August 20, 2022 25 minutes ago, Calldd said: i was with a girl for 7 years, she got pregnant within 2 months of our relationship and we have a son which is within my families custody as the relationship was domestically violent and her daughters with her father etc. Why did the children get taken away from you? She doesn't have to see her children but she has to pay child support to whoever has custody. Who is actually raising your son? Your family? Who was violent? Are there restraining orders against you or her? Are either of you allowed supervised custody? Does she have drug, drinking or mental health problems? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted August 21, 2022 Share Posted August 21, 2022 No given her history she is not seeing the new guy as a rebound but is moving on to her next conquest. She will probably end up pregnant by him too and will have another baby and leave them to for another man. Your best bet is to get over her and find a decent woman to give your heart to because this one is not it. I feel sorry for the kids she leaves bdhind. Link to post Share on other sites
BrinnM Posted August 21, 2022 Share Posted August 21, 2022 Could be a rebound, but it doesn’t matter. Sometimes rebounds turn into sth serious & long-term, so you shouldn’t waste your time and hope. What interests me more is how she all of a sudden left her son after 7 years, out of the blue. I’m assuming she was in his life as a solid, steady mother figure while you and her were together? Relationships end all the time, even long-term RLs and marriages, and when kids are involved, you just split custody somehow. It’s not like your role as a parents ends with the relationship. Weird. And sad! How did she explain her non-existing relationship with her daughter when you 2 got together 7 years ago? Uninvolved parents are always a red flag one way or another. Sorry you’re dealing with this, and I hope you can give your son the love and stability he needs. Link to post Share on other sites
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