She Won't Put Any Effort Into Our LDR

[WiiPX]

Hello everyone , First Of all I want to Excuse For My Bad English , second I dont Know if I should be Asking this here But i dont know what to do ...,

So The Thing is That , I met a girl Online ( In a Game Basicly we Played a game And we were In same team ) Later after the game ended she added Me And so i added her back she Asked if i have Instagram And we followed eachother's instagram .

As days Been Passing By we Talked And texted every single day And So I had Feelings for her And i still do have , And so After like a month Or two i decided To Let her Know How i feel about her And i told her that I want her to be part of my life , she said ( i will think about it ) been a few Days And then She asked me On her own " Do you want to be My Boyfriend ( not kidding ) "  and i was Kinda shocked Cause I knew she doesn't feel the same way as me ... but i accepted Cause I like her . Now its been around 2 weeks As we are so called "Couple" But she never starts an Conversation, doesn't ask me " Hey , How Are you How was Your day " or anything All she does is texting me at night " Hi wanna Play? " And that's all I text Paragraphs Of how i feel about her And telling her that i want to know how does she actually feel about me , cause i dont know what i am Am i a freind , a game buddy , or a boyfriend ... That Hurts me .... She only asks me to play And That's all i dont want to be hurt more .... What do i do ??..

Thank you in advance everyone 

[basil67]

You could try leading.  Have you made any plans to meet her in person?  This is where I'd start if I were you.

 

[WiiPX]

Basil67 yes I told her im planning to meet her in the near future 

 

[basil67]

Great!  When are you going?

Try not to worry until you've met face to face and find out if you and she connect well face to face

[ExpatInItaly]

Before I give further advice, can I ask how old you both are, OP?

[Wiseman2]

Distance yourself from this. Try not to allow a game to become your virtual reality, including thinking you're in a relationship with someone you never met.

It's fine to have teammates and hobbies, but as far as women and dating goes, you're better off seeing them in person.

[glows]

10 hours ago, WiiPX said:

Hello everyone , First Of all I want to Excuse For My Bad English , second I dont Know if I should be Asking this here But i dont know what to do ...,

So The Thing is That , I met a girl Online ( In a Game Basicly we Played a game And we were In same team ) Later after the game ended she added Me And so i added her back she Asked if i have Instagram And we followed eachother's instagram .

As days Been Passing By we Talked And texted every single day And So I had Feelings for her And i still do have , And so After like a month Or two i decided To Let her Know How i feel about her And i told her that I want her to be part of my life , she said ( i will think about it ) been a few Days And then She asked me On her own " Do you want to be My Boyfriend ( not kidding ) "  and i was Kinda shocked Cause I knew she doesn't feel the same way as me ... but i accepted Cause I like her . Now its been around 2 weeks As we are so called "Couple" But she never starts an Conversation, doesn't ask me " Hey , How Are you How was Your day " or anything All she does is texting me at night " Hi wanna Play? " And that's all I text Paragraphs Of how i feel about her And telling her that i want to know how does she actually feel about me , cause i dont know what i am Am i a freind , a game buddy , or a boyfriend ... That Hurts me .... She only asks me to play And That's all i dont want to be hurt more .... What do i do ??..

Thank you in advance everyone 

 

9 hours ago, WiiPX said:

Basil67 yes I told her im planning to meet her in the near future 

 

You have a crush on her but at the moment that’s all it is. If she declines or delays meeting stop playing with her. She appears uncaring and completely disinterested about you. She’s only interested in playing games.