Gelguy0079 Posted August 29, 2022 Share Posted August 29, 2022 So my fiancee and mother of two girls decided to take a trip to meet up with a *friend* and hide it from me while lying to me about it. She had been acting strange and distant no sex ect. I confronted her about it and she was brazen about it and was even texting him while I was talking to her. Mocking me. Something in my brain felt super disappointed not even mad more like a sense of pitty. I've walked out on the situation but still wonder why she felt that need to be cruel. Link to post Share on other sites
Ellie178 Posted August 29, 2022 Share Posted August 29, 2022 thats harsh. u need to leave her Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted August 29, 2022 Share Posted August 29, 2022 3 hours ago, Gelguy0079 said: I've walked out on the situation but still wonder why she felt that need to be cruel. Without much context it's hard to say what prompted this behaviour, but you're well rid of her. The relationship was apparently over even before you confronted her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gelguy0079 Posted August 29, 2022 Author Share Posted August 29, 2022 Some more context apparently she is expressed she felt like a single mother always doing everything, on many occasions I asked her to let me help and to tell me what she needed . She would just get upset and say it didn't matter because I didn't do anything anyways. I tried to approach her several times but she always pushed back hard. At the end of the day I wanna say I have some self worth enough to save face and focus on my girls but I can't help to feel a lot of resentment for the way she went about everything. I'll keep my emotions in check from here on out but man can't lie four years is a long time . Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 29, 2022 Share Posted August 29, 2022 1 hour ago, Gelguy0079 said: she is expressed she felt like a single mother always doing everything, She would just get upset and say it didn't matter because I didn't do anything anyways Is it her place, your place or do you co-own, co-lease? You two have different goals and values. The relationship has not worked in a long time and all that's left is resentment. Go your separate ways and be the best father you can be. You seem to just be coasting along. She's checked out because you did a long time ago. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gelguy0079 Posted August 29, 2022 Author Share Posted August 29, 2022 Idk man it still sucks that she did that and yes I felt alot of resentment from her but it frustrated me I never really could feel or point out a flaw of hers. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted August 29, 2022 Share Posted August 29, 2022 1 hour ago, Gelguy0079 said: it frustrated me I never really could feel or point out a flaw of hers. How was it your job to "point out her flaws"? Be glad it's over. It was not a happy situation for you. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted August 29, 2022 Share Posted August 29, 2022 9 hours ago, Gelguy0079 said: Some more context apparently she is expressed she felt like a single mother always doing everything, on many occasions I asked her to let me help and to tell me what she needed . She would just get upset and say it didn't matter because I didn't do anything anyways. I tried to approach her several times but she always pushed back hard. At the end of the day I wanna say I have some self worth enough to save face and focus on my girls but I can't help to feel a lot of resentment for the way she went about everything. I'll keep my emotions in check from here on out but man can't lie four years is a long time . Well she's getting a chance to go off and be with her "friend" so who is keeping her kids while she does that? She's obviously not too tied up with the kids if she can do that. I wouldn't ask her anymore questions and let her do what she wants. Just focus on your girls and hopefully you will meet someone nice. Link to post Share on other sites
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