Zoey Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 So, in my heart I knew it would happen, but I never imagined that my reaction would be what it is. He wants me back. (We dated for 4 years, he broke up with me in the beginning of August). I've only seen him once since the breakup, but he's been calling, emailing, and texting a lot lately which kind of clued me in to his intentions. But last night when he called and spilled the beans, I was completely silent. The truth is, I think I'm pretty happy without him. That's not to say that I won't ever want to be be back together with him, but its the last thing on my mind right now. I can't believe that I feel this way. If he'd have asked me two months ago, and I would have jumped at the chance. But now? No way. Being single is awesome. I can't believe that I spent all of my early twenties hitched to one man. I just want to date other people and try out other relationships... Did anyone react similarly when their man/woman tried to come back? Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 Who would want a man who begs? Yuck. I enjoy my single life too, so I can really relate. Link to post Share on other sites
JohnJohn Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 He who procrastinates.....masturbates. Link to post Share on other sites
whereismylifegoing Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 you won't be saying the same **** as a few months go by......i know a few girls who did the single life and for some reason they always end up with somebody......human nature is not to be single......but if i was you enjoy yourself while you can and experience your life until your ready to settle......that doesn't mean date around and find other peoples hearts to break or vice versa......that is something you don't do........to me a girl that jumps from guy to guy is a big turn off. god know how many people a person would have slept with. but tell your ex how you feel........ tell him that he made things like this and it's his fault for the way you act now.......that will drive him nuts. Link to post Share on other sites
Rocko Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 Hi Zoey, It's kind of ironic, actually. You were willing to walk away initially, and instead, he walked away. Now that he's come back, you're willing to let it slide. I'm sure you enjoy your single life, but I have a feeling you *may* just be enjoying the attention he's giving you. I say take it easy and date others, and tell him to do the same. Oh, and try to imagine him having a girlfriend *other* than you. But this vicious cycle has to stop sometime. Because what if in a few months YOU'RE the one ready, and he's the one who's enjoying the single life? Take it easy, have fun, but remember *why* he walked away. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 I'm with Rocko on this one. Seems like a game at this point. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 He is stroking your ego and your loving it.. Careful.. It sounds to me that you do want him back but are going to play with him first.. If you didn't want him back you would've just told him and you also wouldn't have posted about it here.. You will lose him forever with your games Link to post Share on other sites
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