Wiseman2 Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 1 hour ago, Gloriousdays said: his mum is now against him dating women of my race …..but he still wanted to move in with me in but I told him no … so I ended the relationship as I believe he wasn’t being honest with me and he was just lying to me Sorry this happened. It turned out for the best and you dodged a bullet. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
seapebbles Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 (edited) I'm so sorry that things ended this way! There is definitely something about his life and/or lifestyle that he's keeping secret from you. You're not good enough to meet his mum or step foot in his house because of your race, but he still wants to move in with you? Absolutely not. Do not let this man back into your life. You deserve so much better than this guy! Edited September 13, 2022 by seapebbles 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 I’m very sorry for the end of your relationship, but it is likely for the best. Regardless of his marital status, he has a strange relationship with his mother. I personally wouldn’t trust him, I don’t like how he made you wait for an explanation and then introduced you to his mum - only to tell you that she didn’t approve of your relationship? Did he know this was going to happen before you met - why put you through that? Strange, all around. Take care. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Allupinnit Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 This man is sooooo full of sh*t. I'm really sorry. I still think you should have gone over there lol. I'd be dying to know the truth about his real life. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted September 14, 2022 Share Posted September 14, 2022 (edited) 5 hours ago, Gloriousdays said: so I didn’t meet the mum … he said to me that because of what his ex did (contacting me and his workplace) his mum is now against him dating women of my race This makes no sense not that it matters now. But what does his ex contacting you have to do with his mum being a racist and not approving of you? I'm not getting the connection between those two things. He never had any intention of introducing you, ever. Sounds like he's always known she wouldn't approve of you because of your race which is why he never wanted you to meet her. Good riddance. I'm sorry @Gloriousdays, feel better. Hugs. Edited September 14, 2022 by poppyfields 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jah526 Posted September 14, 2022 Share Posted September 14, 2022 5 hours ago, Gloriousdays said: he said to me that because of what his ex did ( contacting me and his workplace) his mum is now against him dating women of my race ( we were in a an interracial relationship) so he said to me that his mum told him not to go anywhere near a woman of my race ….. That literally makes no sense. Because of something his ex did, she is against your relationship? Was his ex the same race as you? At any rate, probably best not to try to disentangle this. Narcissists, if that’s what he is, love creating nonsensical word salads. Thank your lucky stars for that email, and good for you for giving him the boot! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted September 14, 2022 Share Posted September 14, 2022 It is upsetting to hear how this situation turned out. Our first reaction is to look for answers and try to piece everything together, but avoid overburdening yourself with all the lies the man has told you at once. Clarity will come to you gradually. Make sure you take time to look after your health and surround yourself with friends and family. Take extra good care of yourself. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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