its_me_123 Posted September 15, 2022 Share Posted September 15, 2022 Hi there, I have been seeing a woman and had a few dates. We get on really well and chat each day and have got to know each other very well. I know it's early days, but wondered when the best time is to become officially partners? I have read somewhere it would be 10 dates, but that seems a long way off. Also, what would be the best way to approach this subject/ask her if we could become more? Any advice would be great Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 15, 2022 Share Posted September 15, 2022 16 minutes ago, its_me_123 said: when the best time is to become officially partners? I have read somewhere it would be 10 dates. About the time it gets physical, have the exclusive talk. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author its_me_123 Posted September 15, 2022 Author Share Posted September 15, 2022 As in fully physical or something less. What if that it not a priority? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 15, 2022 Share Posted September 15, 2022 (edited) 31 minutes ago, its_me_123 said: I have read somewhere it would be 10 dates, but that seems a long way off. Try not to keep accelerating this so much. Why slap some label on it and risk coming off as possessive? What you can do is tell her you took your profile down and are only talking to and seeing her. Then see how she responds. What exactly do you mean by 'physical is not a priority'? Are you two older and just want companionship? Edited September 15, 2022 by Wiseman2 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Ami1uwant Posted September 15, 2022 Share Posted September 15, 2022 49 minutes ago, its_me_123 said: As in fully physical or something less. What if that it not a priority? Don’t have sex before exclusivity talks there is no certain formula in this…it’s about how you feel about each other, how long you’ve known each other, how much you talk between dates, and how often you date. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 15, 2022 Share Posted September 15, 2022 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: What you can do is tell her you took your profile down and are only talking to and seeing her. Then see how she responds. OP: The man I am dating did exactly that. When we met he told me he only concentrates on one person at a time so he had hidden his profile. I really liked him so before we met a second time I hid my profile as well. Trust that if she likes you she won't be interested in dating around. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 16, 2022 Share Posted September 16, 2022 It's probably a bit early to be putting labels on it, but you could certainly discuss not seeing others so that you can focus on building on what is looking like a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
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