HaeunKim Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 Hi! My fiance and i broke up... Here comes the problem: We are have been engaged for a year and before that dated too and even before dating we are have been friends for 3 years. He always wanted to have kids and to build a family, so we are talked about having kids together, building our own little family. He is even bought baby shoes too. We are went abroad for a two week long work trip. Something might have happened there, because after we are came back from there, a couple days passed and he said he doesn't want kids anymore, while in the same time he is melting over kids wherever and whenever he sees one or is with one... I do want to have kids, at least one if not more! I always seen myself as a mom with a baby at least if not more kids... But his sudden change of mind made us break up, saying "we are want different things". We are working together in a team to this day too after 3 month of the break up. Still both of us would want to be with each other, but he says he it would be selfish if he would ask me to be with him because i want kids and he doesn't... In our work team (all the team members are our friends too) two other guys are asked me out for a date... The only what made my fiance and me break up was this reason, we didn't had problems, our feelings didn't fade away... Both of us know we are would be still together now too if not this having kids issue... So my question is... What should i do? Should we continue the relationship? Or not because he won't change his mind anyway? Any kind of advice or story if you went through similar can help, because for now i am just confused. Thank you so much for everyone's time reading this and in case of commenting, giving advice! :) Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 Why is he buying baby shoes if you are not pregnant? It seems like he wanted to end it and knowing your primary goal of having babies, he thought that would be a good exit plan. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 21, 2022 Share Posted September 21, 2022 I'm a woman who has never wanted kids. However, I go ga ga whenever I see a baby, I just melt because they are so sweet and cute. I love to look at baby clothes too because they are so cute. I've never wanted kids, been married twice and am now well pass my childbearing years. Link to post Share on other sites
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