poppyfields Posted September 30, 2022 Share Posted September 30, 2022 (edited) It could literally mean anything OP. If you like the man, why not simply date him and play it out? It's all a risk no what his history. Stop focusing on possible red flags and enjoy the process, the journey. If he starts behaving flaky and unreliable, dump him because of that. Those are red flags not him not having a relationship longer than two years. It's good to stay aware and observe but it seems like people are dumping each other based on assumptions and not actual facts. Have fun and enjoy. Edited September 30, 2022 by poppyfields Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted September 30, 2022 Share Posted September 30, 2022 (edited) It is fine to pass on these men. Standards and preferences don't make you shallow or self-centered, OP. It makes you responsible because you understand that not everyone you meet is going to be the right fit for a relationship. Edited September 30, 2022 by Alpacalia 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Hopeful30 Posted October 3, 2022 Share Posted October 3, 2022 (edited) On 9/29/2022 at 5:53 PM, Wiseman2 said: Do not husband hunt. it's putting the cart before the horse. Seek out men you're compatible with and want what you want. Compatibility, in this case, includes treatment as a romantic partner. This includes flirting, foreplay, sexual chemistry, sex, gestures, body language, types of vulnerability, etc. Otherwise everyone would date their friends. The romantic prospect changes that dynamic. When meeting men, looking for husband qualities is a natural instinct when you're single and in heat. You can't help what you want. I think filtering out non-husband material makes sense. Who wants a compatible relationship with a man who can never be your husband? I would rather dedicate my time to a man who could possibly. Edited October 3, 2022 by Hopeful30 Link to post Share on other sites
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