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My ex girl returned to me after 12 days with sorry. Should I give her a second chance? She broked up with me because she has tired of living with me and I was taking her for granted. Then she told me that she likes a man, but he do nothing for her. We're both 20 y.o. and it's our first long relationship(3,5 years)

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No don't take her back.  You are both young and have a lot of life to live before settling down so early.  She's only coming back because things didn't work with the other guy. Date other people, travel and work on your career now and you can settle down later.

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Ok, but what if she really understood that he seemed attractive to her because we took for granted ourselves and we need to work on relationship(for example spend more time together)?

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No, don't take her back. 

It sounds like she only came back to you because he didn't want her. That isn't the basis for reconciliation and she will leave again when she meets someone new. 

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19 hours ago, Ilya2002 said:

 She broked up with me because she has tired of living with me and I was taking her for granted. 

Do you want her back after cheating and trying out a new guy?

Did she move out completely? Is she living back home with her parents?

Living together playing house can become a horrible rut and drag, especially for two young people who would rather feel freer and less tied down to that type of drudgery.

Perhaps if you are still interested you could date and have more fun and not fall into a rut.

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