StephanieJ123 Posted November 7, 2022 Share Posted November 7, 2022 Quote My crush said months ago that I should come to his birthday party that's this week. He said he didn't know where it would be yet, but he'd let me know when it got close. I saw him a few weeks back and he again said I should come to his birthday party, then reminded me again on Facebook. Each time he asked I said yes, I would come. The thing is, it's on tomorrow night and he still hasn't told me where it is. He has spoken to me though about random stuff but hasn't mentioned it. Should I ask him or just not say anything unless he does? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted November 7, 2022 Share Posted November 7, 2022 2 hours ago, StephanieJ123 said: He said he didn't know where it would be yet, but he'd let me know when it got close. How old is he? How do you know each other? Do you have mutual friends or know anyone else who's attending this party? You could ask "is the party still on?" If there is no answer step back. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 7, 2022 Share Posted November 7, 2022 8 hours ago, StephanieJ123 said: My crush said months ago that I should come to his birthday party that's this week. He said he didn't know where it would be yet, but he'd let me know when it got close. I saw him a few weeks back and he again said I should come to his birthday party, then reminded me again on Facebook. Each time he asked I said yes, I would come. The thing is, it's on tomorrow night and he still hasn't told me where it is. He has spoken to me though about random stuff but hasn't mentioned it. Should I ask him or just not say anything unless he does? Why haven't you already asked him where it is? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted November 7, 2022 Share Posted November 7, 2022 Why on earth would you not ask him??? Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted November 7, 2022 Share Posted November 7, 2022 Yes, it's a lot more simple and sensible to shoot him a message asking where is the party than posting on a message board about it. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 8, 2022 Share Posted November 8, 2022 Why wouldn't you ask him? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 8, 2022 Share Posted November 8, 2022 He probably thinks he's already told you. Just message him and ask the address Link to post Share on other sites
poppyfields Posted November 9, 2022 Share Posted November 9, 2022 (edited) I gotta echo all the other responses asking you why you haven't asked him where it is? Seems simple enough, no? Edited November 9, 2022 by poppyfields Link to post Share on other sites
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