He broke up with me as he's not ready for a relationship

[Alpacalia]

Stop expecting others to give you answers on why things didn't unravel as you wanted them to. You don't need to dig up unnecessary information. It used to be that people wanted to tell me things about my ex-fiance, and I would ask them not to tell me anything about him. Partly, I did not care, but partly, there was no point. Relationship, over. 

Anyway, think about what's still ahead of you when you're mulling over your grief, which is just an intense emotion, that like all emotions, withers away at some point. So let it, and leave the past alone. 

[ExpatInItaly]

1 hour ago, Lovewinsall22 said:

I just wish he had said something before instead of even celebrating our 6 months and so on. 

Of course. 

Unforutnately, things sometimes go south. We don't always get the tidy endings that cushion us from further pain. But ask your friend not to share any further information with you about your ex. It will only serve to keep you stuck and hurt you. 

[Calmandfocused]

Op, got to admit I was cringing at your update. 
 

I have to be honest with you. I had a lot of sympathy for you and your boyfriend at the start of this thread. However I’ve changed my position somewhat. Let’s go to you first; 

What on Earth on you doing on Tinder? You’ve been single for all of 5 minutes and you think the best way of dealing with this is to bring an innocent party into the mix? Someone to use/ hurt for your own selfish reasons, and by effect, making yourself feel even worse? Why??????

You’re doing the wrong thing Op. My advice is stop the Tinder and start the processing. Get learning, get healthy then find yourself another man. What is the rush???

Im terms of your (ex)  boyfriend my sympathy for him has vanished. I think he’s all over the place. If he seriously believes that flashing his private parts to random strangers over the internet  is acceptable then he’s not the sort of person  you want to be in a relationship with. 

Let him get on with it and set your standards higher. 

[Acacia98]

19 hours ago, Lovewinsall22 said:

I feel like the last 6 months where a sham, I am trying to actively move on but im also trying to wrap my head around everything including all the new info I found out. 

I'm sorry for the pain you must be going through. But I'm glad you now have enough information to have a better sense of who he was when he was not with you.