How to win a girl back?

[reozeno]

Cut story short, Met a girl through dating app, things goes well. Recently, she teased me. I posted food photo on IG story. and she replied "Wow so delicious, just like my a&*". and i replied oh really? let me see!. haha. being playful and all. later she gave the photo. and.... this is where it goes downhill....

She sent a disappearing photo. You knw that 5 sec photo that u can see.  I quickly screencap which I actually didn't know...The sender will get notification!

She quickly call me out and...ya it turn sour for us. I did said sorry, and even deleted the photo just to convince her. and... she did said she forgave me but...today my messages has been replied by...just one liner.

Im wondering what is the best solution for this. 

*Sorry English is not my first language.

[ExpatInItaly]

There is not much you can do.

You apologized. You deleted the photo. It's up to her if she wants to move forward from that. If not, on to the next. 

 

[Wiseman2]

1 hour ago, reozeno said:

 she replied "Wow so delicious, just like my a&*". and i replied oh really? let me see!. haha. being playful and all. later she gave the photo. 

Have you met in person? This may be a catfish, scammer or escort/sexcam worker looking for business.

Delete and block her from all your social media and messaging apps.

[reozeno]

3 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Have you met in person? This may be a catfish, scammer or escort/sexcam worker looking for business.

Delete and block her from all your social media and messaging apps.

Yes i have. no Catfish here.

[Wiseman2]

1 minute ago, reozeno said:

Yes i have. no Catfish here.

 How long have you been dating? Is this a distance situation? Why would she sext you?

Sexting is not dating. She's foolish to send pics she regrets. Sounds like a trap to send stuff she doesn't want to share.

Step back from her. She made the mistake sending it. She seems like a troublemaker.

[glows]

Stay away from individuals like this. It sounds like a lot of drama and headache. She isn’t interested if she’s sending one liners or curt responses.

I suggest you don’t continue messaging her or contacting her if she doesn’t reply. 

 

[smackie9]

Don't be contacting her groveling because it makes you look even more suspicious. Whatever happened in her past, it sounds like she trusts no one now. Nothing you can do about it. Just step back. If she contacts you then great...if she doesn't then she's done and gone. Life goes on. 

[reozeno]

Thank you for the responses. I have to say, im surprised by the answers haha. Because i thought it would be simply a few suggestions what i need to do to get her back. But in return i get posts roasting me haha. but nevermind. Poeple are entitled to thier opinion. I think my wording might have lost in translation. i guess win her back have a strong meaning in english i guess. Its not a loser move if you try to fix something wrong when things goes well. At least to certain extend. If i get a cold shoulder for extended period of time, yes i have to move on. but this is not the problem. If i ask her out tomorrow, she will meet me. but she just upset with me. thats all. lol.

Also, IMO i do think its common when girls are comfortable with you, they will do things like this. like sexting, flirt with you,send pictures etc. Atleast this is how i see it grows naturally if youre persuing anything that involve physical aspect of it.

But regardless,an update,  today the chat with her has been batter. Will meet her soon. 

Again thank you guys for the comments. 

[reozeno]

43 minutes ago, Kelton said:

Do you see anything wrong/inconsiderate/privacy invading/deceptive/devious/creepy about taking a screenshot of a photo that she intended to be temporary?

And only being concerned that you got caught and she's mad at you because you failed to realize she'd be notified you did it?

 

 

Well yes. It is wrong for my part. Which i think i have explained quite clearly on my original post. I can reply more on this, but i believe its a waste of time for overreacted reaction like this. 

[JTSW]

All you can do now is wait.

You apologised and deleted it. 

It's now on her to decide what she wants to do moving forward.

[glows]

15 hours ago, reozeno said:

Also, IMO i do think its common when girls are comfortable with you, they will do things like this. like sexting, flirt with you,send pictures etc. Atleast this is how i see it grows naturally if youre persuing anything that involve physical aspect of it.

But regardless,an update,  today the chat with her has been batter. Will meet her soon. 

Again thank you guys for the comments. 

It’s good that you’re both chatting again but keep in mind this early with such drama, it’s questionable whether this is worth the hassle in the long run. 

She shouldn’t have sent you the photo in the first place if she was going to make such a big deal out of you saving it. Obviously people save photos shared or given - I’d find it unrealistic to assume they’re not saved. Anything put out there has the capacity to be saved and used against you. That’s why it’s not advised oversharing on social media and compromising photos should be avoided especially with people you’ve just met or known for a short time. 

You just weren’t explicit about saving it and she used it as an excuse to go nuts on you. It happened too fast and it was a big dramatic nothing. Be careful being pulled in by things like this - high highs and low lows.