ahoj Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 so my friend girlfriend (they been dating for 2 years) told him that she want pouse becouse he was first boyfriend and took her virginity but he has alot of exprience behind she knew about some of those and now shes telling him that she love him and its true and want to be back with him but she wants to sleep with another boy before she get back cuz she has no exprience only him how do i stop this? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 7 minutes ago, Valentyn said: how do i stop this? You don't. It's not your relationship. Stay out of it. Your friend can decide for himself what is unacceptable and proceed accordingly. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 22 minutes ago, Valentyn said: she wants to sleep with another boy before she get back cuz she has no exprience only him how do i stop this? If she wants to break up there's nothing you can do .Once you're broken up you can both be free to date/have sex with others. Getting back together after a pause is a bad idea because on/off relationships have unresolved conflicts. Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 Understandably you probably care about your friend but this isn’t any of your business unfortunately. Be there if he needs to talk but avoid getting involved. Does he constantly complain to you about his relationship problems? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ahoj Posted November 24, 2022 Author Share Posted November 24, 2022 no and there is problem both of them talk about how good their relationships is Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 They as in you and your girlfriend? It doesn’t sound like there’s any “friend” involved according to your duplicate thread. Either way I’m sorry if you’re the one going through it. If she is so insecure about her sexual history or yours, this isn’t a match. Link to post Share on other sites
central Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 Well, you can always tell her that if she does this, then your relationship is over. That is your choice, and she is free to make hers - but, if you say this, mean it. I've been in a similar situation. My perspective is that I want someone who is SURE about me when they make that commitment. So, I told her to date and get it out of her system, and if I'm still the best match for her, then we'll see where things go. I also said that I would be dating others, too, and there was no guarantee that I wouldn't find someone better for me. That's the risk - and the potential. So, she did date others, as did I, and we BOTH decided several months later that we were the best match. We've been married for 15 years now. I will add that it is important to never question the decision to get back together - if you do. And never make each other feel any guilt for needing to figure out what is best for them by dating and having sex with someone else. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 35 minutes ago, Thomas ali said: how do i stop this? You don’t. You end the relationship if she is telling you that she wants to have sex with other men. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted November 25, 2022 Share Posted November 25, 2022 This isn't your business and certainly not your place to interfere in someone else's relationship. Stay out of it. It's not your problem to solve. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted November 25, 2022 Share Posted November 25, 2022 You are not the moral value police...none of your business. Link to post Share on other sites
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