basil67 Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 Is this the MM you're seeing? Yes, it does seem desperate to send a photo of your feet to spice things up. The whole thing appears to be dying off, so it would be best for all if you let it go gracefully. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 I wouldn’t. do you realize that feet photos are a hot thing now? many women charge big money for feet pictures online. It’s a real thing - big business. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pushandpull Posted December 19, 2022 Author Share Posted December 19, 2022 Yes he's afraid I'm leaving him Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 On 12/12/2022 at 5:36 PM, pushandpull said: I have no idea what to expect and wanted to know if this is normal or not. I know I shouldn't be doing this but I am. Sorry but nothing about this is normal. You are both cheating, that's never normal. He wants you on his terms only, with no regard for what you actually want. I personally would NEVER put myself in this kind of messed up situation. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 9 hours ago, pushandpull said: Yes he's afraid I'm leaving him Either that or he’s not interested. I agree with basil, if you value your career you should let this go graciously… Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 10 hours ago, pushandpull said: Yes he's afraid I'm leaving him You both seem to want to keep it going, but unfortunately you seem more invested than he is and seem to want more attention than he is ready willing and able to offer. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 On 12/12/2022 at 8:35 AM, pushandpull said: . I have noticed if I initiate even though he asked to see me, he doesn't perform as I want him to. Does that make any sort of sense? Of course it makes sense. He's only interested when he wants sexual attention (dirty talk). He doesn't care about you and your needs. Stop saying you're addicted and if you feel you truly are get into therapy to find out why you're cheating on your husband. Stop blaming your feelings on the MM as you are responsible for how you feel and what you do, not him. You have the strength to stop these actions and get on the right path, so do it or just set your husband free. MM will use you for whatever he can get; but will never leave his wife for you. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 On 12/12/2022 at 12:36 PM, pushandpull said: I really appreciate your comment. I have no idea what to expect and wanted to know if this is normal or not. I know I shouldn't be doing this but I am. What you can expect is to eventually get caught by his wife or your husband. All hell will break loose and MM will throw you under the bus so fast your head will spin in order to not lose his wife. You probably already know how your husband will react. Please don't think this won't happen. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 19, 2022 Share Posted December 19, 2022 15 hours ago, pushandpull said: Yes he's afraid I'm leaving him How can you leave someone you aren't dating? He just wants to get his jollies. So yes, sending this pic seems desperate on your part. Link to post Share on other sites
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