McJr760 Posted December 15, 2022 Share Posted December 15, 2022 my ex dumped me 3 months ago. it was hard for the first few weeks but i got over it as best i could. thankfully work has kept me busy enough to keep my mind off her. i still think about her though, and i have been holding back the urge to reach out. would it be out of line to send a message and see how she is? is it still too soon to try to reconnect? i'm not thinking about reestablishing our relationship, but i miss her a bit. she went on a trip to lebanon recently, i want to know how it went, as well as her birthday. should i just leave her alone? Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted December 15, 2022 Share Posted December 15, 2022 If you’re comfortable being nothing but platonic friends and seeing her move on with other guys, sure. Otherwise she ended it with you because she didn’t trust you /didn’t think you were faithful in the relationship. Do you think you can be friendly knowing what she thought of you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author McJr760 Posted December 15, 2022 Author Share Posted December 15, 2022 2 hours ago, glows said: Do you think you can be friendly knowing what she thought of you? good point, i think i'll just keep myself from messaging her. Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted December 15, 2022 Share Posted December 15, 2022 Move forwards. Some dead ends are really just dead ends. Every time you think about going back think of a loop that goes nowhere and leads you back to where you are. Time is ticking and life is passing by. Meet new people. Try new things. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 15, 2022 Share Posted December 15, 2022 If she dumped you and has not tried to keep in contact, you can assume that she is not interested in keeping any sort of connection alive. Also, it would suck if you try to be friendly and then learn she's met someone else. This isn't worth reviving, OP. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 15, 2022 Share Posted December 15, 2022 7 hours ago, McJr760 said: i'm not thinking about reestablishing our relationship, but i miss her a bit. Make sure your life is busy with activities, interests, friends, socializing and of course dating. It's been 3 mos so it's time to fill some voids. That way you can resist the urge to contact her, particularly if you don't even want to reconcile. Link to post Share on other sites
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