Anna340 Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 (edited) Hello! I am an 18-year old girl. Why is my best friend's girlfriend such a jealous stupid girl? She is so possessive towards her 18-year old boyfriend! I hate her! She complains to her boyfriend a lot about these things: 1. My best friend spends 2 days a week and 2 hours a day with her while my best friend spends 7 days a week and 9 hours a day with me. Also, she gets to have phone calls and text messages with him. Plus, she gets to have sex with him within those two hours. Isn't she [ ] content? 2. Her boyfriend and I exclude her from a lot of activities and trips. 3. Her boyfriend helps me out in a lot of things while he only helps her in very few things. 4. My best friend and I do not inform her about our trips, activities, and personal secrets in order to hide them from her. She complains about these things? She complains about the fact that her boyfriend prioritizes me over her? Really? Her boyfriend prioritizes me over her and is closer to me because he and I have been best friends since childhood while she only met him when they were 16-years old! Also, my best friend and I often fought together as comrades and protected each other against tough guy bullies since childhood and we are still fighting together as comrades and defending each other to this day while all she does is stand there to be protected by him but cannot help him. I even cook delicious foods for her boyfriend while she can't. I guess she is inferior to me as a person. And what's funny is that her boyfriend often takes my side against her whenever she and I get into fights. Then I and her boyfriend berate her together. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! That means she is a bad person! I mean my best friend is a very nice person so if he always takes my side against her then that means there really is something wrong with her. Seriously, she is so mad that her boyfriend prioritizes me oer? I mean so what if she is his girlfriend? Like who cares? No matter what she does, There will always be roles in her boyfriend's life that she can never equal or be better than me at. Those roles will always be mine and will never be hers. I will always be his one and only platonic friend. She is just there for sex. So for all girls who is like my best friend's girlfriend, remember this: A boy fights for and dies for his girlfrid while best friends fight together and die together. Remember that! Edited December 26, 2022 by a LoveShack.org Moderator formatting Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 I’m curious why you’re so affected if you’re just a friend. Wouldn’t you want to see him date or make someone special a priority? Does it bother you that he has sex with her? Do you have other friends you can spend time with? It’s better to rely less on this friendship. No man is worth the hassle if he puts another woman down. Link to post Share on other sites
Weezy1973 Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 Honestly sounds like you’re the jealous one OP. Do you want to be his girlfriend instead of just a friend? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 You are not being a good "best friend" to the guy when you try so hard to put him at odds with his girlfriend. You aren't painting yourself in a very flattering light here. Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 You can't possibly be serious? You say you're 18 but your maturity level is more like 12. You obviously have feelings for this guy and are possessive of him. But his relationship with this "girlfriend" is not going to last very long, the way he treats her. If he ever wants to have a healthy and happy relationship with a girlfriend in the future, he is going to have to grow up and learn how to treat a girlfriend. Because this isn't it. Why doesn't he just dump this girlfriend and date you. You guys sound made for each other. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 4 hours ago, Anna340 said: A boy fights for and dies for his girlfriend while best friends fight together and die together. Um, I'd rather be the girlfriend in this example. If the best friend is so crazy about you why didn't he make you his gf instead of her? It sounds like you and the best friend are guy buddies. Are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Anna340 Posted December 26, 2022 Author Share Posted December 26, 2022 2 hours ago, stillafool said: Um, I'd rather be the girlfriend in this example. If the best friend is so crazy about you why didn't he make you his gf instead of her? It sounds like you and the best friend are guy buddies. Are you? No. I am girl. Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 7 hours ago, Anna340 said: . I will always be his one and only platonic friend. She is just there for sex. Unfortunately it's not a good idea to chase other girls BFs. He seems like someone who enjoys a good catfight for his ego and sadly makes both of you look foolish for chasing him. Step away from all of them. Strive for better friends and a BF of your own. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 8 minutes ago, Anna340 said: No! I am a girl. Thank you! So why didn't he make you his gf? Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted December 26, 2022 Share Posted December 26, 2022 If you were really his best friend you'd be happy for him that he found someone he really likes. As for plotting and planning secret trips and activities behind his girlfriends back, would you like that being done to you? It sounds like you're a very demanding, possessive, interfering, and controlling person who couldn't care less about your "best friend". If you're feeling this angry about someone else's relationship you should probably get some professional help for that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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