Dating a partner with BPD. Guidance needed

[Weezy1973]

4 hours ago, Fox Sake said:

Now I’m hoping it will just faze out …..

If you completely go no contact, block and delete it will absolutely faze out. That’s really the strength you need to show. Stay firm with that and you’ll be fine.

[Fox Sake]

On 1/11/2023 at 8:43 PM, ExpatInItaly said:

Fixed that for you, Fox. 

That you did.
You seem to be connecting with me recently!

 

she’s now blocked. And because I know people would love to know - she was looking for a reconciliation but made no effort and started snorting lines off camera. Then went and got drunk and i think, just wanted me to roll over for her like a puppy or an emotional punch bag. 
 I just said enough is enough and the coke changed her. It truly did. Made her self centred and unable to connect with anyone else. But even saying that was like farting into the wind. 
Then, she tried to gaslight me into thinking I was crazy and imagining it (watching her become someone else over the last 2 weeks of use),  and that she was fine ! She then ended it herself saying sorry she hurt me , which is the point I blocked her! I deserve better 
 

Edited January 13, 2023 by Fox Sake
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[Wiseman2]

4 hours ago, Fox Sake said:

 she tried to gaslight me into thinking I was crazy and imagining it 

Denial is the first symptom of addiction, as they say. Good you got her out of your life.

[ExpatInItaly]

On 1/13/2023 at 2:04 AM, Fox Sake said:

You seem to be connecting with me recently!

My ex was diagnosed BPD, so I can identify with a lot of what you have written in this thread. 

On 1/13/2023 at 2:04 AM, Fox Sake said:

started snorting lines off camera. Then went and got drunk

This woman sounds like an addict, Fox. It's very good that you found out now before investing yourself any further. She's got serious problems.