My boyfriend slept with two guys while we were on a break for three weeks

[JTSW]

You just need to remember that YOU wanted the break and weren't together when it happened.

[Madison]

We broke up for a few weeks because I needed time to think about some things. During the three weeks we were broken up, he slept with two guys. I already knew he was bi but I didn’t expect him to move on so fast. It doesn’t matter guy or girl it would still bother me the same. I don’t know what to do. I love him so much but he recently ran into one of the guys he hooked up with. They didn’t talk but he told me after we walked by that he was one of them he was with during that time. I don’t know. This is just too hard for me.

[ExpatInItaly]

Based on the thoughts and feelings you expressed in your other thread and the fact that he has previously cheated on you, I think you should just end this completely and eventually start fresh with someone else. 

 

[JTSW]

16 hours ago, Madison said:

We broke up for a few weeks because I needed time to think about some things. During the three weeks we were broken up, he slept with two guys. I already knew he was bi but I didn’t expect him to move on so fast. It doesn’t matter guy or girl it would still bother me the same. I don’t know what to do. I love him so much but he recently ran into one of the guys he hooked up with. They didn’t talk but he told me after we walked by that he was one of them he was with during that time. I don’t know. This is just too hard for me.

But he didn't move on.

It was just a hook up and you weren't together.

He's been completely open and honest with you so It clearly meant nothing to him.

I'm not saying it shouldn't hurt or upset you because I know I would feel the same.

But as I keep saying, YOU WEREN'T TOGETHER. HE DIDN'T CHEAT!

Again, you either accept it and move on, or end it.

Dragging this out is only going to make it work.

 

[JTSW]

15 minutes ago, JTSW said:

Dragging this out is only going to make it work.

 

Worse not work

[Wiseman2]

17 hours ago, Madison said:

 he recently ran into one of the guys he hooked up with. This is just too hard for me.

The reason for the break was his admitting the cheating so the first thing he does while "on break" is go out and have sex with men again? Reflect if you are up for a lifetime of headaches and heartaches with someone who's go-to comfort zone is sex outside the relationship.