I can't pretend to like this person being around me anymore

[stillafool]

4 hours ago, justaskingok said:

She doesn't like to be alone. She says.

 

And she won't be able to shop the way she does now. 

Why don't you have a place of your own?

[Els]

13 minutes ago, justaskingok said:

If my mom told me she's uncomfortable with someone staying over where she rests her head id respect that, she shouldnt even have to ask me to not have them there. My name is on the house but I'd still consider that HER HOME- and id consider her feelings.

It doesn't matter what you would or wouldn't do - it doesn't affect the fact that this is the choice she made, and the only thing you can do about it is to move out. You can only control your actions, not other people's.

 

[Acacia98]

Search for the "gray rock" method online. It might help you cope.

 

[Kassieee]

12 minutes ago, Els said:

It doesn't matter what you would or wouldn't do - it doesn't affect the fact that this is the choice she made, and the only thing you can do about it is to move out. You can only control your actions, not other people's.

 

Considering I can't move out this second. I'm not sure how this is helpful advice.

[Els]

1 minute ago, justaskingok said:

Considering I can't move out this second. I'm not sure how this is helpful advice.

Sure, but stuff only happens when you make it a priority. Better next year than 10 years from now, for instance. Until then, you just have to hide in your room and count the days down til you can move out.

[NuevoYorko]

2 minutes ago, justaskingok said:

Considering I can't move out this second. I'm not sure how this is helpful advice.

You can certainly get a hotel room.  Do it.

While you're enjoying your getaway, look for a rental and sign a lease to start as soon as possible.  Then move out.

 

[Kassieee]

 

10 minutes ago, Els said:

Sure, but stuff only happens when you make it a priority. Better next year than 10 years from now, for instance. Until then, you just have to hide in your room and count the days down til you can move out.

Hide in my room, never that. 

I'm making the best out of this situation. Making it mall day and and treating myself to some sweets. 

Edited January 18, 2023 by justaskingok

[Kassieee]

14 minutes ago, Acacia98 said:

Search for the "gray rock" method online. It might help you cope.

 

Pretty much what I'm going to do from now on. Unfortunately there are family occasions coming up she will be attending. Grayrocking will be in full effect.

Edited January 18, 2023 by justaskingok

[stillafool]

36 minutes ago, justaskingok said:

That's my business, thank you for your help 🙂

I imagine your aunt feels the same way.

[Kassieee]

Feeling much better today. 😌 

This thread helped alot. Thanks guys.