ZaM Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 well My girlfriend and I broke up in the summer and than after about a month and some got back for about 2 weeks and broke up... anyways there was alot of stuff that happened here... we both with first break up kissed other people and I thought things were gone for sure so i did it again so she would hate me and dump me because that's what I thought i wanted. WRONG! right after i did it i realized i made the hugest mistake ever but than we broke up and since then she says she just doesn't love me the same anymore.. i have been pretty much laying low and she has been going out and having her fun, alot of it at that, seeing lots of guys and such. her friend told me before that i was the guy that she wanted for a serious relationship still but she needs to have her fun time like you know the university type stories crap. but anyways sometimes we hang out and we end up kissing or just talking about old times and i know she still feels for me i can tell but for some reason as soon as things just get a little to close she backs up... something is holding her back and i don't know what it's like i am this terrible person or something.. i just don't know. i love her so much and i know she is the one i want to be with...i have been with others since her...like now we have been broken up for like 4 month's and i still feel the same. i dunno what to do it drives me mad... not to mention i work with her so i see her everyday..wow is that hard.. but anyways someone any advice at all. Link to post Share on other sites
head/heels Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 the best advice of your life.... 1. get a different job 2. dont talk to her anymore or kiss her anymore...she cant have her cake and eat it too 3. never call her again... 4. let her call you (in case 3 wasnt obvious enough) 5. move on with your life, dont mope around, dont talk to her friends about you and her...dont even talk to her friends unless it is about anything that doesnt have to deal with you and her and/or your feelings! it will get back to her and that is the last thing that you want...you (contrary to what you believe) do not want her thinking you love her more than life itself and you definately dont want to let her know you cannot function well without her...so stay away from mutual friends if you cannot be 100% normal and a fun and happy guy aroudn them! 6. finally, go to the gym and work out and revamp your lifestyle (if you dont already) you are a new man and you need to get your sh(t in gear....if she doesnt want you, then to hell with her and you gotta take this time to self reflect, work on you, and move on with your life as it is just beginning and time to get to the point in your life where you put u first again... NOW GO! Link to post Share on other sites
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