blackendangel13 Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Ok so me and my ex of 6 months have been apart for almost 5 months. Our 1 year would have beenOct. 17th. We lived about 35 minutes apart and basically ended it because it just wasnt working. I was needy at that time and there were just a few little things that weren't what I wanted. When we broke up I said we needed to so that we could be friends and take things slow. He agreed. When we got together it was a whirlwind. We met and 2 weeks later after our first night hanging out together he asked me to be his girlfriend (on sweetest day). I was shocked and not ready for a relationship but agreed because I liked him for such a long time. Anyhow, to my predicament. For a month or so after the break-up I was still calling him and talking to him and vice versa. He also came to help me move (he was the ONLY one) and came to my housewarming party. I called him twice for booty calls. We still see each other at least two to three times a month. It was very uncomfortable at first because I was really confused and so was he. One time where we were at the same bar (about 1.5 mo ago) he saw me talking to some guy and I could see that it really bothered him. I also have an extremely hard time seeing him talk to other girls. So I decided I wanted him back, or at least wanted closure. So I went out of my way at a mutual friends wedding a few weeks ago to talk to him and be friendly. He basically acted like I ran over his cat. He was very short with me and somewhat cold. I was trying to make small talk and he just looked right through me. It felt horrible. He is one of those guys that keeps all their feelings bottled up so he is very confusing. I don't know what to think about this. Before me, he hadn't had a girlfriend in about 4 years. I did nothing to hurt him in the relationship or after. Does this maybe mean he is over me, or that he is still harboring some feelings and trying to push me away? Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Check the wedding location for a squished cat. Link to post Share on other sites
Author blackendangel13 Posted October 28, 2005 Author Share Posted October 28, 2005 His cat was nowhere near the wedding and I didn't drive. I love his kitty too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author blackendangel13 Posted October 31, 2005 Author Share Posted October 31, 2005 So I definately think there is something behind this. We made out last night. The cat is fine, and he was hungover the day of the wedding. Link to post Share on other sites
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