The Farmer Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 Hi, well to start this off a girl i like couple yr's younger then me and still in high school, really been talking with her a lot she calls me pretty much every nigh tto talk and joke around and i make her laugh a lot, but it's been around 7 months now that i been pursing her and she new i liked her from day one, we have managed to hang out several times, and the other night she came over for a bit to give me a picture of herself to me. This past week though when we were talking she first talked about how her and a friend of hers talked in school about how there afrraid to make a commitiment, she then later concluded by I hope i'm not scarying you by saying this am I? she has never said that she likes me and so another night when i was talking with her this past week i wanted to know were i stood with her, did she see me as just a good friend?, or did she see me as something more? when i asked this she got kinda mad, upset like and goes u know i cant tell you this, well i kept peaking away at her but i couldnt get anything from her, so i asked her then well tell me this do i rate high? she said yes and thats all the more i got out of her. So after that i pretty much dropped it cuase i didnt want her getting mad at me, so last night was talking on internet with her and i asked are you upset with me? she goes kinda, but upset with myself and with others. So i asked why she's upset with me, she then goes i'm not in a good mood please dont start with me about this. So know i wonder what i should do i really like her a lot, but i wanna know what to take of that? another thing i wonder is should i call her back or should i just wait to see if she calls me back? will that give me a hint that if she calls back then yeah there is something there just i need to wait it out? give your thoughts or takes on this Link to post Share on other sites
glittergurl Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 Okay, first of all: she sounds VERY immature and self-centered. Second: when you asked her if she was upset with you, and that she answered "kinda, but upset with myself", you should NOT have asked why she was upset with YOU It made you sound just as immature and self-centered as her. You threw the most important question out the window: Why was she upset with HERSELF? Guess we'll never know ... Anyway, I think she's playing with you. Link to post Share on other sites
yngv Posted November 4, 2005 Share Posted November 4, 2005 Sounds to me like she's toying with you. I've been in that position way too many times myself. Stand up for yourself. Don't call her. If you can handle being just friends, fine, go ahead. If not, cut her out of your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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