a4a Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 Ok thar fellers.......... answer this one.......or women that are in the know! As a women flowers bore me...... pretty thoughtful but its just too normal! LOL! I would prefer a surprise to go sky diving ect. Wonder (because of glitters what to buy post) what would a man find exciting as a surprise/romantic ideal date or activity? Now if you suggest a 3 some is at the top of the list......well that is out....unless its two guys and me LMAO! Dont think DH would approve of that! Serious like a picnic? surprise date to a nascar race:D ? What are some quick things that can be done in a pinch to really surprise a guy? (Do not suggest a good shagging, I do this on normal basis, and surprise DH with it in sometimes inappropriate times LMAO) a4a Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 Do not suggest a good shagging, I do this on normal basis well then, uhhh ..... hmmm, I got no better ideas But hey, instead of just a good f*ck, how about giving him a wicked one instead know what I mean? think bad.... Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 Ok thar fellers.......... answer this one.......or women that are in the know! As a women flowers bore me...... pretty thoughtful but its just too normal! LOL! I would prefer a surprise to go sky diving ect. Wonder (because of glitters what to buy post) what would a man find exciting as a surprise/romantic ideal date or activity? For me, it would have to be something exciting, something that involves alot of adrenaline. I have been skydiving but i would like to do it again. I have my gentle side as well. As long as I can tell that my girl has put some thought and effort into the surprises, then I am happy with whatever it is. Link to post Share on other sites
JayKay Posted October 30, 2005 Share Posted October 30, 2005 Find a place that gives balloon or helicopter rides (if you live near PA, I recommend a place) or try bungee jumping. Do something that makes you feel scared, excited and thrilled. Doing something together that gets the adrenaline going can make things feel really sexy and exciting!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
k_lily Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 My husband might just be easy to please... but aside from actual gifts, it's mostly just the little things that he likes: He's into cars, so one of the things he loves most is when I help him work on ours. It's probably one of the most sexy and enjoyable things I can do for him. He also likes that I ask him questions about them, and that he can tell I'm really picking up on it. Also, for his birthday the first year we were together, he was having a hard day the night before because he had to work early the morning of (try 5:00 am early). So I snuck out while he was still sleeping, got him a bouquet of balloons, a dozen fresh donuts, and a six pack of his favorite alchohol, and I skipped a set of lingerie in(for me). Inside the card I wrote "something for now, something for later, and something for later than later!" He loved it, he said that no one had ever made him look so forward to a day, even knowing that twelve hours of it would be spent at work. Honestly, the grand gestures are nice when you can do them, but let us not forget that sometimes there is greater enjoyment in the little pleasures of life. Link to post Share on other sites
mini696 Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 Well I may not be like most guys, but I like to have validation that my GF loves/likes me. I guess all I need is affection, attention, and for her to brag about me to her close friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Topper Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 What does he like to do? Is there anything he has talked about doing but has put off? Tickets for the two of you to see his favorite Pro or college football team would be great for a lot of guys. Less expensive but still great would be planing a Football date you get all the snacks and beer have steaks ready fro the grill. Pick him up from work and take him to a nice place to eat then to a Hotel and pamper him with a hot bath message and the works. i love to ski I was dating someone last year that made plans for a 3 day weekend to one of the best ski mountains in the West Jackson Hole Wyo She did everything and just told me not to make plans for that weekend. Get a professional naughty photo of yourself made just for him. You Know him best use your imagination and go for it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 2, 2005 Author Share Posted November 2, 2005 You gave me an idea..... DH left one of his woodshop porn mags on the kitchen counter! (this what I call his woodworking supply catalogs).... I will start picking through it when he is around asking him what this or that thing is for and to see what really peaks his interest. He seems to be able to talk about every damn thing in there though! Gotta boil it down to a couple of selections...... some of that stuff is HIGH HIGH Dollar! I was thinking of giving him 7 smaller things out of there....... and looking for a woodworking type of class for him......carving or something he has not attempted as of yet?? I am not familiar with such things.......any advice on this? We have the Nascar tickets already...... he hates other sports...... a blessing for me I must say LMAO! a4a Link to post Share on other sites
Tangerina Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 When we first got together and I finally convinced him that I actually enjoyed doing it, it made my boy feel really lucky and special to have me help him build the little cottage that he is building... it is a place he had been building for a long time out in the woods so he could have his own place but he had stopped working on it for a while since it didn't matter to him since he didn't have anyone special to share it with... now that he has me he is working on it all of the time again and is almost done... When I help him with hammering and siding and drywalling... etc... it makes him feel that much more special about the place and how great I am, haha.... Also, a while ago I told my boy about how he was going to have a special night... but it was a long time until I had a chance to actually do it so he had weeks of anticipation... when it actually came I cooked him a gourmet meal and dressed up in my best lingerie that he hadn't seen yet and served him dinner... he said it was the nicest thing that anyone has ever done for him because so much planning and thought went into it... I also made him cry happy drugged tears by bringing him a flower and a card after his wisdom teeth operation, he wasn't expecting that since it was pretty early on before we were actually "in love"... Or sent him a letter during the week in the normal mail with some pictures of me so he could think of me... (we live in different cities and see eachother on weekends).. he really liked that... it doesn't take much, just show that you care and put a little effort into it... and if he has any emotionas at all he will appreciate it... Link to post Share on other sites
TUDOR Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 We have the Nascar tickets already...... he hates other sports...... a blessing for me I must say LMAO! a4a My parents have season tickects to the races and my dad is race nut especially nascar. So for his birthday we bought him one of the race school days where they take you out to the track strap you into one the nascar cars and let you experience the thrill and rush of racing. You take a quick class, then a driver takes you out on the track to teach you how to drive the car on that particular track and then you get to go solo to finish. He loved it! Said it was huge rush and a whole other experience to watch the race after that because he knew what the drivers where filling in the turns, the speeds, etc. If he is race fan this is a great gift and something that will change how he watches races after that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted November 2, 2005 Author Share Posted November 2, 2005 Screw what my husband wants....... I want to go to do that Nascar driving school thing....actually we hope to do that soon.......on our "must to do list". $600 a pop.....last I checked but well worth it. DH has had the chance to work with some of the Nascar drivers in his field of work. Kinda neato for him. a4a Link to post Share on other sites
TUDOR Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Screw what my husband wants....... I want to go to do that Nascar driving school thing....actually we hope to do that soon.......on our "must to do list". $600 a pop.....last I checked but well worth it. DH has had the chance to work with some of the Nascar drivers in his field of work. Kinda neato for him. a4a I only live about 10 minutes from the Texas Motor Speed Way so it is very convient and here it is only about $350 a pop but the price goes up the more laps you want to drive. The second race for Texas is this weekend!!! If you get the chance to go though I would jump it, my dad hasn't stopped talking about it every since he went. Link to post Share on other sites
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