Whats this mean?

[Jackripp]

So I don't know if anyone knows my story, but where things are now is wierd.

 

Latley me and my ex have begun hanging out again. We have been broke up since july. I want her back. anyways

last night we kissed and then cuddled and slept together just slept. AS we were lying there she said "I miss this". We then talked in the morning about "us" and I guess the status changed. Before it was always "I dont know if i will want you back" Now its "I DO want to be with you again, just I dont know when" Does this mean anything?

 

And what can I do? Just keep hanging out with her because somthings obviously working. Or get more distant and let her know she could loose me for good so she makes a desision? I dont want to blow it this time.

JR

[chocolate_boy]

You're definitely on the right track my friend. Just play it cool... I know how you feel, you want it so bad and now.. but patience is the key...

 

Let her take the time she needs, be supportive and keep the time you spend together valuable... treat it like you're getting with someone new.

 

Don't initiate relationship talk, if she does, simply agree with her concerns

"yeah i was selfish.. you're right..." this works in your favor.

 

Let it happen natually.. keep it exciting.

 

Good luck keep us updated!

[sundrop]

I DO want to be with you again, just I dont know when" Does this mean anything?

 

And what can I do? Just keep hanging out with her because somthings obviously working. Or get more distant and let her know she could loose me for good so she makes a desision? I dont want to blow it this time.

JR

 

That saying is a new one on me... I'm confused over that one.. My first impression when I read that, is she is making you suffer a little bit, but than again that is just what I think....

 

I think you are doing the right thing. I wouldn't push the issue right now, just enjoy the time you do have together. The "I miss this" is a good thing.

So I say, Chocolate Boy gave you some good advice, follow that.

Congrats, and best of luck.

[Jackripp]

OK, I didnt know this but one of my friends has talked to her. I am kind off pissed but eh. anyhow my friend told her that she should leave me alone or take me back and quit ****ing with my head.

 

they ended up talking for awhile and my ex told my friend that she eventually wants me back. She sees that I am a much better person and she thinks it is because we are not together. Also she said "I want to want him back" what does that mean. she wants to want me back/

 

 

JR

[J dub]

...she said "I miss this". ... Now its "I DO want to be with you again, just I dont know when" Does this mean anything?

 

Sure, it means she misses the comfortable feeling that she has when she's with you and she wants you to stick around until she finds someone she DOES want to be with because you make her feel desired.

 

Also known as: Games a girl plays to feel loved (but not tied down) when she's lonely.

 

my friend told her that she should leave me alone or take me back and quit ****ing with my head.

 

Even your friend sees it, youre just too busy being distracted by her mixed messages.

 

she said "I want to want him back" what does that mean.

 

You know exactly what it means but you don't want to admit it to yourself. She is saying she doesnt want you back, otherwise she'd be getting you back. There is no grey area, either she does or doesnt. Do you want to be with a girl who is wishy-washy about how she feels about you? Sometimes she kinda loves you and wants to be around you, others not so much?

[dr strangelove]

Look man its great that she sleeps with you etc..

 

I dont know why you keep asking her about "Us".

Next time she wants to hook up etc I think .. well honestly do u want advice on getting her back or do u want to just do your own thing?

 

Perhaps you should tell her you dont think your into her anymore, your feelings have changed and your sorry. etc..

Let her f---ing pine over you for a bit. Im sorry I know this is rough advice but life is rough..