confusedsoul36 Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 hey my names matt please help me okay, let me start off by saying at this point i do not know what is going on in this girls head right now. with that said let me tell you the story okay i am a junior in HS i really really love this girl, the saying love at first sight was true the day i met her. we got to be real good friends and she said that she wanted to go to homecoming with me last year while i was a sophmore. so i asked her and she said yes and she was very excited about going, we went to homecoming and i didnt croud her or anything i just acted as a good date would i was very polite and gentlemen like. the school year went by pretty fast from there and we were still talking but slowly fading from each other. when summer came by we stopped talking all together and i stopped likeing her, little to my knowledge when i stopped liking her she started liking me, well word got out and i started liking her again when this school year came around. we went to Homecoming aigain this year on oct. 22 and it was funner than last years, although this year i acted more like a b/f to her. about 3 AM i get a call from my mother crying that my sister went back to jail so i went home to comfort her, i invited her over and i offered to bring her home, she declined both. i go back to school monday, happy because i thought we had a good time. this was the day i wanted to kill myself i heard that a good friend of mine (not anymore) kissed her when i left to go home from the party. this made me furious and all my guy friends would instigate me to fight him but i knew she wouldnt like that so i just forgot about it. the same night i found this out i gave her a call and told her how i really feel about her and i took a while, i did it in the most romantic way possible i also told her that i knew about her and my friend. we discussed it and she said to all of her friends and to me that she was sorry and shouldnt have did it (i belived her because we were drinking when i left) i told her i wanted to be more than just friends and that i wanted her to myself we stayed on the phone for a while but basically her point was that she doesnt want a b/f right now and she said that i deserve alot better than her, i didnt buy this and i continued to throw the most romantic things from my heart that i could say she began to cry and said i just dont want to hurt you she said i'm not ready for a relationship (she was flirty and a little immature when it came to guys) but i knew i could trust her. many of her friends now go up to her and tell her she is stupid for passing me up and i want it to stop because it is making her feel worse than she already is. ever since we told each other how we feel about each other she hasnt been talking to me that much anymore and we never do things (movies, parties...etc) anymore. she is still feeling bad from homecoming because she made a wrong desecion. i'm not ready to give up and i dont think that she is but i dont know for sure, but what should i do? how do i win her over? her friends tell me play hard to get. it makes since because she liked me when i didnt like her, but when i liked her she didnt like me anymore so what is the deal? i am just confused. shes the type of girl that likes what she cant have as her 2 best friends tell me.. ohh yeah her friends also told me that she said [exact quote] "I dont want a b/f, all i want is a guy that will treat me right" and her friends just called her stupid because they know that i am that guy. so how do i win her over? - heartbroken Link to post Share on other sites
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