exotic_angel Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 i'm jus out of a very intense 5 yrs FWB relationship.. i've always been really picky when it comes to dating.. but there's a guy at my universtiy that i have a "crush" on for the longest time.. how do i get his sttention without looking desperate..???? i'm a marketing major and he's a MIS Bsc major..i'm currently the regional events and PR maanger for one of the worlds most reputable vodka companys, i'm young, healthy and i don't have a problem getting dates.. please help.. i feel like 12 all over again.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_angel Posted April 25, 2005 Author Share Posted April 25, 2005 thanks for all the advice ... no i don't know his name.. i don't know anything about him really.. except that he's hot.. lol.. i know a few of his freinds really well and me and him have only spoken a few times very casually.. things like "hey nice day today" or he would say "you're hair looks nice" about the revealing clothes i usually do dress somewhat sexy.. but classy sexy.. i used to model and i don't have a problem getting dates.. so i hope that answers the are u hot comment.. i jus don't quite know how to make the first move.. even if it's just friends.. what do i do? Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_angel Posted April 27, 2005 Author Share Posted April 27, 2005 MY TYPE????? really what's that supposed to mean???? Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_angel Posted October 28, 2005 Author Share Posted October 28, 2005 This boy and I are both final year marketing majors and even though we live a half minute away from each other, we met though school and have always casually talked on MSN and such. Saturday night five of my friends and I got together for a casual luau and I thought it was the perfect time to get to know him better. Early on in the night he called to say he would be a half hour late, then he called later and asked if it was alright to bring five friends. I was hesitant considering I had never met any of them before, but I said yes anyway, because I really wanted him to come. So anyway all the boys showed up, I was wasted and I was kind of mean – to a few of them I said “no not you, not you.” He looked at me kind of embarrassed and said, “You’re not serious right” and I said yes. They all ended coming up to the party nonetheless. He asked mo to talk to them, he tired breaking the ice by telling me to offer them a drink and I didn’t. I told him I wanted only him and one of his friends to stay. So he told me he would be back in a little while and he left with them all. He did eventually come back (to my surprise, might I add) and so he asked for an explanation as to why I was mean to his friends. I was even more wasted now and acted flirty and ditsy, I kept talking over him. I was everything unappealing and cheap. I don’t even know why I did all of that, I can’t remember half of it. But my other friend, who was there, told me I was horrible. So I called him, the next morning and apologised, blaming it all on alcohol. He didn’t say much, it seemed like he just wanted to hang up the phone. Later I wrote him an email explaining everything, but I still haven’t heard from him and I feel awful. He’s the nicest guy I’ve ever met and I really want to make it up to him, but I don’t know how. This is so difficult and I feel defenceless, please help me somebody. Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_angel Posted October 28, 2005 Author Share Posted October 28, 2005 This boy and I are both final year marketing majors and even though we live a half minute away from each other, we met though school and have always casually talked on MSN and such. Saturday night five of my friends and I got together for a casual luau and I thought it was the perfect time to get to know him better. Early on in the night he called to say he would be a half hour late, then he called later and asked if it was alright to bring five friends. I was hesitant considering I had never met any of them before, but I said yes anyway, because I really wanted him to come. So anyway all the boys showed up, I was wasted and I was kind of mean – to a few of them I said “no not you, not you.” He looked at me kind of embarrassed and said, “You’re not serious right” and I said yes. They all ended coming up to the party nonetheless. He asked mo to talk to them, he tired breaking the ice by telling me to offer them a drink and I didn’t. I told him I wanted only him and one of his friends to stay. So he told me he would be back in a little while and he left with them all. He did eventually come back (to my surprise, might I add) and so he asked for an explanation as to why I was mean to his friends. I was even more wasted now and acted flirty and ditsy, I kept talking over him. I was everything unappealing and cheap. I don’t even know why I did all of that, I can’t remember half of it. But my other friend, who was there, told me I was horrible. So I called him, the next morning and apologised, blaming it all on alcohol. He didn’t say much, it seemed like he just wanted to hang up the phone. Later I wrote him an email explaining everything, but I still haven’t heard from him and I feel awful. He’s the nicest guy I’ve ever met and I really want to make it up to him, but I don’t know how. This is so difficult and I feel defenceless, please help me somebody. Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_angel Posted October 28, 2005 Author Share Posted October 28, 2005 lol.. no the missin americian girl was not at my luau.. alo, i don't remember everyting bout that night.. my friend who stayed over relayed a lot of it back to me... all i want to know is if there is any way i could make it up to him.. or make it right... i jus want a second chance.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_angel Posted October 28, 2005 Author Share Posted October 28, 2005 alright guys... so basically u all r sayin that there is no way i can make it better wit this guy.. and yes we are/were jus friends... Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_angel Posted October 28, 2005 Author Share Posted October 28, 2005 Here’s a crazy idea: I call him up and ask him if he wants to come over to play a game of monopoly. I’ll tell him, if he wins, I’ll leave him alone forever or do whatever he wants me to do – within reason, however, if I win, he has to give me another chance to show him the “real” me. He never said he’s angry with me, but I haven’t heard from him since Sunday morning when I called and he acted cold. So am I taking this too far? Should I call him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_angel Posted October 28, 2005 Author Share Posted October 28, 2005 Here’s a crazy idea: I call him up and ask him if he wants to come over to play a game of monopoly. I’ll tell him, if he wins, I’ll leave him alone forever or do whatever he wants me to do – within reason, however, if I win, he has to give me another chance to show him the “real” me. He never said he’s angry with me, but I haven’t heard from him since Sunday morning when I called and he acted cold. So am I taking this too far? Should I call him? BTW i appreciate the reality check.. and all the comments.. i jus need sum advice.. i want to fix this... Link to post Share on other sites
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